"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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how many days to wait: chick from POF

pyros

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Hello,

I chatted with a girl from POF. She actually initiated it. SHes pretty cute, so after an hour or so, I got her number and suggested to meet this week to what she said ok. Besides, I made a little sexual joke and she bought it, and after I got her number and we texted on whatsapp, she made another subtle sexual joke too.

How many days do I wait till I call her to set the date?
This happened last Sunday, I was thinking about calling her this evening (Tuesday), to set a date for Thursday or Friday.

Tips?
Thanks.
 

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She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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pyros said:
Hello,

I chatted with a girl from POF. She actually initiated it. SHes pretty cute, so after an hour or so, I got her number and suggested to meet this week to what she said ok. Besides, I made a little sexual joke and she bought it, and after I got her number and we texted on whatsapp, she made another subtle sexual joke too.

How many days do I wait till I call her to set the date?
This happened last Sunday, I was thinking about calling her this evening (Tuesday), to set a date for Thursday or Friday.

Tips?
Thanks.
*SIGH*

When I meet women whether it's online or in person I set the date ASAP. I don't have time to lollygag. are you trying to bang these chicks or be their friends? you should be setting the date up whilst you're getting the number in any situation
 

pyros

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Solomon said:
*SIGH*

When I meet women whether it's online or in person I set the date ASAP. I don't have time to lollygag. are you trying to bang these chicks or be their friends? you should be setting the date up whilst you're getting the number in any situation

First time I read what is in bold.
 
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