"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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How many dates without action before you eject?

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Dude stop wasting anymore of your time on this!

6 dates and no bang? That is ridiculous..

When she mentioned

"She was going to invite you to her house at some point"

That is just horse chit, to either keep you chasing longer, or to make it look like that you COULD have smashed her puzzy, but YOU messed up, by becoming impatient.

She is playing games Bruv.. I would just withdraw attention, but WITHOUT looking or sounding butt hurt about it.

Just cancel date, and seem busy as fuk, and you ain't got time for her!







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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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one. dont waste time, if its from OLD it wont last more than 3 month anyway lul (unless you are above her league significantly).

if chicks make you wait they are either;
1. insecure about their bodies
2. virgins or close to virgins
3. dont want to be seen as slooths
4. they think you are good enough to wait for that in case they want it and no one better comes LUL! (if they think that then he will come anyway and quite soon)

Or they are not interested.. Just passing some time with your sorry ass!
 

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Someone raised this old thread but it was a good read, thanks to the OP for documenting this, perhaps there's an update what happened with her since they worked together?

A similar thing happened with me not long ago. I called her out on it too and then walked away. In hindsight though the lesson I learned was never call a woman out, just walk away...let your action do the talking for you.
 

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I need a kiss on first date and a lay by the third or maybe fourth at the very latest but absolutely no more.
 

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I'd eject, but then I live abroad where I can get intimacy through professional means.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

Read more...

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I'd eject, but then I live abroad where I can get intimacy through professional means.
I bet that really changes the balance of power and keeps women in check. I would love to see that in the USA even if it doesn’t happen until I’m 95 years old and can no longer get it up to partake. I just want to see it!
 

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I bet that really changes the balance of power and keeps women in check. I would love to see that in the USA even if it doesn’t happen until I’m 95 years old and can no longer get it up to partake. I just want to see it!
You know I used to think it was disgusting and only people with no game or old, fat dudes would do that but my view is changing now. Looking at the quality of porn I really think that if it was legalized it would not only be a great option for men but will also help eliminate a lot of the sexual abuse etc that happens. I do think that due to the power-shift the feminists will never let it happen. They've already tried going after the porn. Anyway, I digress.
 
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