"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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how many # closes you did this month?

pdx1138

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Victory Unlimited said:
Always remember that a girl giving you her number is the same as her giving you a ticket to "stand in line" for the ride. It is NOT the ride itself.

The more we can keep this in mind, the more we're better able to manage our expectations.

VU

So true. Perfect explanation.

I've told one of my buddies who fears rejection, to expect it and just live with it because the more you get rejected the less you care about it.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Alex DeLarge

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Only 1 so far for october and she flaked. I really gotta hit the street! So busy lately though.
 

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busy is not an excuse. you are not dedicated. i'm busy everyday but i still go out to get digits.
 
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