"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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how many # closes you did this month?

pdx1138

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Victory Unlimited said:
Always remember that a girl giving you her number is the same as her giving you a ticket to "stand in line" for the ride. It is NOT the ride itself.

The more we can keep this in mind, the more we're better able to manage our expectations.

VU

So true. Perfect explanation.

I've told one of my buddies who fears rejection, to expect it and just live with it because the more you get rejected the less you care about it.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Alex DeLarge

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Only 1 so far for october and she flaked. I really gotta hit the street! So busy lately though.
 

escaleraroyal

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busy is not an excuse. you are not dedicated. i'm busy everyday but i still go out to get digits.
 
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