That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
mikeyb said:4% body fat?? There are olympic sprinters with higher bf - most of them actually. Either you're a freak of nature or you're chronically malnourished. I'd start eating more if I were you, that low bf is unhealthy.
To answer the OP, the Harris-Benedict equation says 2094 (assuming you don't exercise), but that's obviously a rough estimate.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
hahablinkwatt101 said:Nope you can hold 6% year round and lose 1-2% bodyfat within 24-48 hours if need be. Just hold off on water,eat very small meals the night before. Only eat breakfast the next day. I don't recommend doing it often though.
Dude everyone can. Hell I've seen people gain more muscle then me while staying just as lean as me. It's just a matter of wanting it. I live by all the advice I post here,I've never advise on something I know doesn't work or don't like.Quiksilver said:haha
dude just because you can do that doesn't mean everyone else can.
Dude you may laugh at it. But I PROMISE you that you've never gone to the gym 3 years straight,giving everything you have 6 days a week. **** I've been laughed at by some of my own friends for how freakin hard and intense I lift. I turn pure red and starting to develop a small grunt on some lifts. It's all about how bad you want it.Kerpal said:^ :crackup:
I don't risk deadlifting. I'm very much into squatting as my main source for punishing my legs. I do straight leg dead lifts occasionally though.Kerpal said:How much do you deadlift?
Is just silly. I know for a fact(I've been there/done that) that personally I cannot hold a bodyfat percentage of under 8% and continue to put on good muscle. Just to get down to 8'ish% from 12% took me 6 months of serious dedication. And by serious I mean almost a neurotic obsession."Dude everyone can. Hell I've seen people gain more muscle then me while staying just as lean as me. It's just a matter of wanting it. I live by all the advice I post here,I've never advise on something I know doesn't work or don't like.
Think about it, I had to learn from someone right? The dude who advise me is in better shape and controls his bodyfat even better then I can. It's all about experience and wanting it more."
You're advising us to take advice from people who are exceptions to the rule. For every person like you described above, there are ten who put in just as much dedication and effort and get half the results.Dude everyone can. Hell I've seen people gain more muscle then me while staying just as lean as me. It's just a matter of wanting it. I live by all the advice I post here,I've never advise on something I know doesn't work or don't like.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
You keep saying this about being dehydrated to lose body fat. What's the science behind this? Seems to me that you'd just lose water.blinkwatt101 said:Dude trust me,learn to dehydrate your system and I bet your bodyfat is a lot lower then you'd think.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
No no I'm just saying that people's bodyfat tends to be lower then they assume...you can't truly see a difference between 10-6% until you dehydrated. To most it may just seem that abs looks better from that 4% but when dehydrated at 10% you just look slimmer but at 6% and below it's a whole new world,veins,muscle lacerations and separation,the muscles develop a more matured look and I think they drop some. At which point every little bit you eat shows and everything is either against or on your side.mikeyb said:You keep saying this about being dehydrated to lose body fat. What's the science behind this? Seems to me that you'd just lose water.
I've never found a more misleading concept,except for maybe calorie counting.Wynston said: