"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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How many buddy's is best when out in groups?

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This came to mind because of another thread.

Solo hunting has it's merit, but there are definately times when being in a group of buddies happens.

I don't think that I would ever plan to go out with 3.6 buddies. lol

What do you think is the best group size?

I definately think that over 4 might spook some women, especially if they are out alone or with just 1 or 2 girlfreinds.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I think 3 is the best number. Fuccin trio. 3 amigos, 3 muskateers... ya know.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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The more the better. You can always split into separate wings when necessary but it's obviously more difficult to add additional wingmen when you are out with a small group.
 

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Originally posted by Francisco d'Anconia
The more the better. You can always split into separate wings when necessary but it's obviously more difficult to add additional wingmen when you are out with a small group.
Definitely NOT, the more the better. 3 of you guys TOTAL at most. Meaning you and 2 friends. Otherwise its a swordfighter fest and everyone knows what you guys are up to.

--Lan
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Yaeh, I was thinking 3 max. as well.

Even playing pool or something, 1 guy is always open to hunt.
 

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"I think 3 is the best number. Fuccin trio. 3 amigos, 3 muskateers... ya know."

LOL

I quite like going out with 5, finding out who's in the same sort of mindset as me, and then splitting up into either a pair or a trio. I prefer a trio for when I'm having one of those 'nothing goes your way nights' - It's doubtful all three of you will be in at the same time, so there should be someone to have a laugh with.
 
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