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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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how many approaches did it take before you got your first success?

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KneghtRyder

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how many approaches did it take before you got your first Lay?

thanks !

success = you've banged her !
 
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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Well, your definition of success is different from mines. I mean, have you guys just NOT read anything that I posted here?

God damn it, why do you still feel that getting laid is a success.

How many approaches does it take for me to fvck a chick, if I have my eye on 5 chicks, I'll usually fvck 2 of them quickly, and the other 3 we usually have a flirting competition until I manage to get them alone.

But that's not success. Success is obtaining a chick in your life that cares about you, and the fvcking will follow just as easily as it did with the 5 chicks above, but only this time, it'll be much better and more meaningful.

When are you guys going to wake up and understand what I'm saying? When you turn 30 like LookYoung?
 
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No, that's your definition of success. Some guys just want to go out to a club and **** a girl and can't be arsed with the relationship thing because their lives are too busy or whatever.
 
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No d99999,

"No, that's your definition of success."

No, that IS SUCCESS IN RELATIONSHIPS, grow up!

"Some guys just want to go out to a club and **** a girl."

No correction, that's what 99% of you want to do, or damn near all of you. Your pvssy-driven....pvssy is a great thing, but you idiots have no clue about "your circle of influence." You have no idea that the people you associate with, have a great deal of impact on you as a person. All you care about is pvssy....the difference between me and you is that I got a GREAT LIFE AND A LOT OF PVSSY! You azzholes just have pvssy...but your life svcks!
 
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DJF or John said:
Well, your definition of success is different from mines. I mean, have you guys just NOT read anything that I posted here?

God damn it, why do you still feel that getting laid is a success.
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Yes it is. It's not the only measure of it but it does feel good nonetheless.

Self improvement is amazing. But let's face it, we want to fvck.

DJF or John said:
Success is obtaining a chick in your life that cares about you, and the fvcking will follow just as easily as it did with the 5 chicks above, but only this time, it'll be much better and more meaningful.
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Let's see... getting laid is not success, but a girl that cares about you is. You put some romantic rhetoric on it and now it's perfectly OK. w00t! :rolleyes:

Trying to feel unique, boy?

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When are you guys going to wake up and understand what I'm saying? When you turn 30 like LookYoung?
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When you stop pretending that what you're saying has not been said countless times on this forum, so, not original at all, and is not quite correct.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Success is in the eye of the beholder. For some, it is getting the girl of ur dreams, for others...its just fvcking as many females as possible. Heck, if success is a guy getting a chubbygirl, since he's a chubbychaser, then thats sucess too.

We can't tell others what their version of success is...as its that person's decision. So DJF or John, ur neither right nor wrong. Its true, in the end...our success should be with spending the rest of ur life with the woman of ur dreams(As when we're DJs, we'll be the man of their dreams) but at the same time, most on this board just want to fvck as many women they see fit.

I am aiming to be a player with a team of fvck buddies, for something to fall back on...as it'd be like "Thats ok tonight didn't go well in terms of F Closes, gonna get some again from one of my ladies tonight anyways"
 
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more than 70 percent of you , banged a girl in 5 approaches or less ?

com'on, something is fishy here
 
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I banged a girl on my first approach.

That was PURELY beginner's luck though. Took me a while to really know what I was doing. And I still am far from an expert.
 
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KneghtRyder

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JLW said:
I banged a girl on my first approach.

That was PURELY beginner's luck though. Took me a while to really know what I was doing. And I still am far from an expert.
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then you are either really good looking or you are a natural.
 
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