Success is in the eye of the beholder. For some, it is getting the girl of ur dreams, for others...its just fvcking as many females as possible. Heck, if success is a guy getting a chubbygirl, since he's a chubbychaser, then thats sucess too.
We can't tell others what their version of success is...as its that person's decision. So DJF or John, ur neither right nor wrong. Its true, in the end...our success should be with spending the rest of ur life with the woman of ur dreams(As when we're DJs, we'll be the man of their dreams) but at the same time, most on this board just want to fvck as many women they see fit.
I am aiming to be a player with a team of fvck buddies, for something to fall back on...as it'd be like "Thats ok tonight didn't go well in terms of F Closes, gonna get some again from one of my ladies tonight anyways"