"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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How low would you go?

Ashigaru

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I've been dating this HB5-6 for a couple weeks now and have totally lost interest. I could tell she is getting oneitis for me and is on my nuts. I haven't done much physically past making out, because I'm just not attacted to her. Her body is about a 7, but her face is like a 5. Should I hit it just for sh*ts and giggles? I know this is a personal perference, but how many of you would lower your scale just to put your c0ck in something wet and warm. Is it worth the drama that it might cause? Or should I just continue to sarge some more HBs that are higher on my scale?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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The Bad Ass Canadian

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If you have any self respect, you won't lower your "standards" for a piece of ass.

Truthfully, you already have, by giving a girl that's only a 5-6 the time of day.

If you start going lower than your standards, they will eventually slip, permanantly. The high quality women won't date a man they've seen with ugly, low quality women. That shows there's eomthing wrong with you, in her eyes.
 

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The Bad Ass Canadian said:
If you have any self respect, you won't lower your "standards" for a piece of ass.

Truthfully, you already have, by giving a girl that's only a 5-6 the time of day.

If you start going lower than your standards, they will eventually slip, permanantly. The high quality women won't date a man they've seen with ugly, low quality women. That shows there's eomthing wrong with you, in her eyes.
I agree. It's not just about bad looking women either. Low quality women includes wh0res, b1tches, gold diggers and so on. If you dont keep your standards high you will end up with all types and they will drag you down!

I read a tip on this forum about how nexting low quality women can improve your self esteem and I think that's true. You need to stick to your standards!
 

The Bad Ass Canadian

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Yeah, Truth... The b!tches and golddiggers fall into this category as well.

I think guys need to really evaluate themselves, honestly, and figure out where they stand on the "food chain" as far as dating and women is concerned. We can all become better people and we all deserve the best, but we have to be realistic in where we can set our standards.

I pull 8's and 9's regularly but only once or twice have i ever been out with one of those model-type chicks (the 9.5 stunners) who go for the rich ******* type guys or the macho jock ass-holes. The thing is, most of those women i don't even want, anyways. They're nothing but trouble and are out of my league only because it's a whole different world. I'm not a part of n'or do i want to be a part of that "scene". (so it has nothing to do with my self-esteem, rather I know what i want and won't date a girl just cuz she's hot.. there has to be more to her then that. If it's just a piece of ass, then I'll aim as high as i can)

I say find a girl who's hot with the personality to match and you're good to go. Only you can decide what girl that is, and beauty is in the eye of the beholder.
 

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Basically, just do whatever you want. If you want to do her, do her - if you don't, don't. Don't overanalyse anything with chicks. If you bang this chick, it won't brand you as only being able to get 5-6's for the rest of your life. It means nothing. What you will remember though is "that chick you could have banged but didn't".

In particular, if this is the only chick you have on the go, then I think you should do her. Only if you have other chicks ready to have sex with you right now should you "hold out" for something better, because that's a never ending loop that can go on forever. Whereas once your getting some off a chick it leads to more opportunities opening up.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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KillaCam

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You've received some darn sound advice there buddy.

Here's a rule that I try to adhere to in my conquests :

If you have to think twice, don't do it.
 

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I used to hit anything that was a 6 and up. After success I started realising I can aim higher. Atm I am happy with 7 and up.

It all depends how desprerate you are....

Personally thow I wouldnt lead a girl on like you are doing but then I dont wait a couple of weeks to bed a girl either.

HB5. Paper bag treatment?

Its up to you in the end....



Sarge On!
 

Impact

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Ashigaru said:
I've been dating this HB5-6 for a couple weeks now and have totally lost interest. I could tell she is getting oneitis for me and is on my nuts. I haven't done much physically past making out, because I'm just not attacted to her. Her body is about a 7, but her face is like a 5. Should I hit it just for sh*ts and giggles? I know this is a personal perference, but how many of you would lower your scale just to put your c0ck in something wet and warm. Is it worth the drama that it might cause? Or should I just continue to sarge some more HBs that are higher on my scale?
The exact same thing happened to me, I chose not to do it.
For you its just a püssy that you'll dump after fücking, its not worth it. Even the UG are people.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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The Bad Ass Canadian said:
If you have any self respect, you won't lower your "standards" for a piece of ass.....
:up:
 

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Dude - be nice to this girl, if she is getting oneitis for you and you dont feel any attraction be straight up and honest. Really -**** like that will mess people up, don't be an *******...
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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****ing her and leaving her wouldnt be bad if you didnt let her fall in love with you already

Shes either got no other people pursuing it or you done put the mack down too long without banging it

Either way if she thinks you are out of her league she is expecting the day to come when you leave her
 

Ashigaru

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Thanks everyone for the advice. But when I said 2 weeks, I meant 2 dates over a 2 week span, so I don't think I'm leading her on. I chose not to hit it and will keep my standards high. This forum is awesome!
 
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