I've been dating this HB5-6 for a couple weeks now and have totally lost interest. I could tell she is getting oneitis for me and is on my nuts. I haven't done much physically past making out, because I'm just not attacted to her. Her body is about a 7, but her face is like a 5. Should I hit it just for sh*ts and giggles? I know this is a personal perference, but how many of you would lower your scale just to put your c0ck in something wet and warm. Is it worth the drama that it might cause? Or should I just continue to sarge some more HBs that are higher on my scale?
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
How low would you go?
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
The Bad Ass Canadian
Master Don Juan
If you have any self respect, you won't lower your "standards" for a piece of ass.
Truthfully, you already have, by giving a girl that's only a 5-6 the time of day.
If you start going lower than your standards, they will eventually slip, permanantly. The high quality women won't date a man they've seen with ugly, low quality women. That shows there's eomthing wrong with you, in her eyes.
Truthfully, you already have, by giving a girl that's only a 5-6 the time of day.
If you start going lower than your standards, they will eventually slip, permanantly. The high quality women won't date a man they've seen with ugly, low quality women. That shows there's eomthing wrong with you, in her eyes.
I agree. It's not just about bad looking women either. Low quality women includes wh0res, b1tches, gold diggers and so on. If you dont keep your standards high you will end up with all types and they will drag you down!The Bad Ass Canadian said:
I read a tip on this forum about how nexting low quality women can improve your self esteem and I think that's true. You need to stick to your standards!
The Bad Ass Canadian
Master Don Juan
Yeah, Truth... The b!tches and golddiggers fall into this category as well.
I think guys need to really evaluate themselves, honestly, and figure out where they stand on the "food chain" as far as dating and women is concerned. We can all become better people and we all deserve the best, but we have to be realistic in where we can set our standards.
I pull 8's and 9's regularly but only once or twice have i ever been out with one of those model-type chicks (the 9.5 stunners) who go for the rich ******* type guys or the macho jock ass-holes. The thing is, most of those women i don't even want, anyways. They're nothing but trouble and are out of my league only because it's a whole different world. I'm not a part of n'or do i want to be a part of that "scene". (so it has nothing to do with my self-esteem, rather I know what i want and won't date a girl just cuz she's hot.. there has to be more to her then that. If it's just a piece of ass, then I'll aim as high as i can)
I say find a girl who's hot with the personality to match and you're good to go. Only you can decide what girl that is, and beauty is in the eye of the beholder.
I think guys need to really evaluate themselves, honestly, and figure out where they stand on the "food chain" as far as dating and women is concerned. We can all become better people and we all deserve the best, but we have to be realistic in where we can set our standards.
I pull 8's and 9's regularly but only once or twice have i ever been out with one of those model-type chicks (the 9.5 stunners) who go for the rich ******* type guys or the macho jock ass-holes. The thing is, most of those women i don't even want, anyways. They're nothing but trouble and are out of my league only because it's a whole different world. I'm not a part of n'or do i want to be a part of that "scene". (so it has nothing to do with my self-esteem, rather I know what i want and won't date a girl just cuz she's hot.. there has to be more to her then that. If it's just a piece of ass, then I'll aim as high as i can)
I say find a girl who's hot with the personality to match and you're good to go. Only you can decide what girl that is, and beauty is in the eye of the beholder.
Basically, just do whatever you want. If you want to do her, do her - if you don't, don't. Don't overanalyse anything with chicks. If you bang this chick, it won't brand you as only being able to get 5-6's for the rest of your life. It means nothing. What you will remember though is "that chick you could have banged but didn't".
In particular, if this is the only chick you have on the go, then I think you should do her. Only if you have other chicks ready to have sex with you right now should you "hold out" for something better, because that's a never ending loop that can go on forever. Whereas once your getting some off a chick it leads to more opportunities opening up.
In particular, if this is the only chick you have on the go, then I think you should do her. Only if you have other chicks ready to have sex with you right now should you "hold out" for something better, because that's a never ending loop that can go on forever. Whereas once your getting some off a chick it leads to more opportunities opening up.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Tomatoes
Master Don Juan
I used to hit anything that was a 6 and up. After success I started realising I can aim higher. Atm I am happy with 7 and up.
It all depends how desprerate you are....
Personally thow I wouldnt lead a girl on like you are doing but then I dont wait a couple of weeks to bed a girl either.
HB5. Paper bag treatment?
Its up to you in the end....
Sarge On!
It all depends how desprerate you are....
Personally thow I wouldnt lead a girl on like you are doing but then I dont wait a couple of weeks to bed a girl either.
HB5. Paper bag treatment?
Its up to you in the end....
Sarge On!
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
The Bad Ass Canadian said:
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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****ing her and leaving her wouldnt be bad if you didnt let her fall in love with you already
Shes either got no other people pursuing it or you done put the mack down too long without banging it
Either way if she thinks you are out of her league she is expecting the day to come when you leave her
Shes either got no other people pursuing it or you done put the mack down too long without banging it
Either way if she thinks you are out of her league she is expecting the day to come when you leave her