"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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How long would you wait?

ProtoMan1

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Hey, generic question. If you just found out that a girl just got out of a LTR, how long would you generally wait to ask her out, hang, or whatever. Hopefully not being the rebound guy and other AFC's are pushing and shoving to get in line. :crackup:
Thanks in advance.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Pappadapolis

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It depends dude. If she was the dumpee, there's no way around it. The next dude will be the rebound. If she was the dumper, make your move now.
 

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"Wait"....for puzzy, are you for real?

Rebound guy, AFC's waiting in line, what the hell are these things to you? By even considering these possibilities you have just entered her reality and are already on the backfoot.

Chicks dont want the guy she opens her legs up for to give a rats a$$ about her ordinary social conventions and "hardships".
Guys who go home with their d!cks only for company Oooh and ahhh and empathize with her plight.

Get this into your skull, she does not want you to walk on egg shells, tippy toeing all around her.
 
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