"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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How long would you wait?

ProtoMan1

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Hey, generic question. If you just found out that a girl just got out of a LTR, how long would you generally wait to ask her out, hang, or whatever. Hopefully not being the rebound guy and other AFC's are pushing and shoving to get in line. :crackup:
Thanks in advance.
 

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I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

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It depends dude. If she was the dumpee, there's no way around it. The next dude will be the rebound. If she was the dumper, make your move now.
 

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"Wait"....for puzzy, are you for real?

Rebound guy, AFC's waiting in line, what the hell are these things to you? By even considering these possibilities you have just entered her reality and are already on the backfoot.

Chicks dont want the guy she opens her legs up for to give a rats a$$ about her ordinary social conventions and "hardships".
Guys who go home with their d!cks only for company Oooh and ahhh and empathize with her plight.

Get this into your skull, she does not want you to walk on egg shells, tippy toeing all around her.
 
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