How long would you wait to call after a "semi" one night stand?

[The_Reaper]

Meaning, you made out and slept together on a bed, but there was no sex.

I'm so used to hooking up with girls that I am hardly interested in, and only slightly attracted to. This is most certainly a self-esteem indicator, as I'm pretty much determined to avoid a relationship until I get some deep enough issues in my life resolved.

Anyway, on Saturday I met a girl outside a club, and I was blown away by her. I busted on her relentlessly, and got "social proofed" by some friends of mine there. I initially thought she was a bit nutty - and maybe she is.

We were both quite drunk, but coherent, articulate, and in a great mood. We were goofing around - I ended up carrying her on my shoulders half the way home...

We didn't have sex. We made out though, and she slept beside me. In the morning, there was actually no awkwardness. We walked to a nearby shop, having an interesting conversation, with plenty of laughs from her. She got a taxi, invited me back with her, saying it was to her brother's place. I made some excuse and didn't go.

She said "you better text me", with a smile and kiss.

Normally, I wouldnt call or text until about 3 or 4 days to a week later, but because she slept over (and we made out), maybe I should text her now (monday evening as I type).
I was gonna ask her if she's on MSN.

 

[theunflushables]

Call her and take her for coffee. Don't text her to see if she has msn. Or go play in the snow or something.

How can you truly get to know someone through a computer?

 

[TheRealSupreme]

My first thought was to question why there was no sex. Why do you guys do that on this board?

We need to get back to old fashioned boning women instead of making out and giving up and falling asleep.

Call the girl the next day is what I would do. I have never believed in that pua crap of waiting 2 weeks 3 days 7 hours 55 minutes and 23 seconds.

 

[nicelife]

2 days is enough

 

[Ganondorf]

Call the next day

call when ever you want. it makes no difference

There is no time frame. do you honestly think women sit and count the days you wait to call to see if you are "man" enough to be with her?

besides, waiting to long will give her the indication that you're playing games and or do not care

 

[BustedKnucks]

I go with 2 days most of the time. It's not long enough where they think you are playing them, but you make them wait enough to get nervous that you just MIGHT not call back. No matter how much you're into a broad, she has to at least feel like she's the one that needs to earn you're attention, never vice-versa.