Hi...I'm a girl. Just how long will you players persist? Will you go on and on with your sly games for a few dates or even a few weeks? Will you hold out a month if you think the girl is fun and she's messed around a little and it seems good. Will you talk about the future and a relationship or will you just bail if she keeps pulling out the stop cards.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
How long will you players persist?
- Thread starter jasper
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
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KontrollerX
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You're confusing us DJ's with pick up artists otherwise known as PUA.
A DJ usually filters out games playing women so as to not have to play stupid games but if for some reason a DJ desires to get a games playing woman the answer you are looking for is he will beat her at her own stupid game and work at doing this for as long as it takes or until he gets bored and nexts her.
Its an individual answer really.
As for bailing on a chick...
Thats only done if she continues to say and express beliefs wants and desires for her life that we have no interest in or at least interest in with her on her specified time table that she seems to be subtley pushing towards with us.
A DJ usually filters out games playing women so as to not have to play stupid games but if for some reason a DJ desires to get a games playing woman the answer you are looking for is he will beat her at her own stupid game and work at doing this for as long as it takes or until he gets bored and nexts her.
Its an individual answer really.
As for bailing on a chick...
Thats only done if she continues to say and express beliefs wants and desires for her life that we have no interest in or at least interest in with her on her specified time table that she seems to be subtley pushing towards with us.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
ER!C L!VE
Master Don Juan
Every guy is different - just like every girl is different.jasper said:
I've known guys who will talk about the future of the relationship and how they want it to continue forever (when they really don't). Also, I've been the guy who's girlfriend told him she loved him, then I found her with another guy later that night. :cheer:
I tell girls up front about me dating other girls. Just like some of the girls who I bang tell me about their current boyfriend of 4 years.
If you can find a thread on sosuave discussing the subject matter of your loaded question, then I'll discuss it with you.
Best Regards,
Eric
WC2
Master Don Juan
The problem is when we stop doing what ladies want, they no longer want itjasper said: