Hi...I'm a girl. Just how long will you players persist? Will you go on and on with your sly games for a few dates or even a few weeks? Will you hold out a month if you think the girl is fun and she's messed around a little and it seems good. Will you talk about the future and a relationship or will you just bail if she keeps pulling out the stop cards.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
How long will you players persist?
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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
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KontrollerX
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You're confusing us DJ's with pick up artists otherwise known as PUA.
A DJ usually filters out games playing women so as to not have to play stupid games but if for some reason a DJ desires to get a games playing woman the answer you are looking for is he will beat her at her own stupid game and work at doing this for as long as it takes or until he gets bored and nexts her.
Its an individual answer really.
As for bailing on a chick...
Thats only done if she continues to say and express beliefs wants and desires for her life that we have no interest in or at least interest in with her on her specified time table that she seems to be subtley pushing towards with us.
A DJ usually filters out games playing women so as to not have to play stupid games but if for some reason a DJ desires to get a games playing woman the answer you are looking for is he will beat her at her own stupid game and work at doing this for as long as it takes or until he gets bored and nexts her.
Its an individual answer really.
As for bailing on a chick...
Thats only done if she continues to say and express beliefs wants and desires for her life that we have no interest in or at least interest in with her on her specified time table that she seems to be subtley pushing towards with us.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
ER!C L!VE
Master Don Juan
Every guy is different - just like every girl is different.jasper said:
I've known guys who will talk about the future of the relationship and how they want it to continue forever (when they really don't). Also, I've been the guy who's girlfriend told him she loved him, then I found her with another guy later that night. :cheer:
I tell girls up front about me dating other girls. Just like some of the girls who I bang tell me about their current boyfriend of 4 years.
If you can find a thread on sosuave discussing the subject matter of your loaded question, then I'll discuss it with you.
Best Regards,
Eric
WC2
Master Don Juan
The problem is when we stop doing what ladies want, they no longer want itjasper said: