Hi...I'm a girl. Just how long will you players persist? Will you go on and on with your sly games for a few dates or even a few weeks? Will you hold out a month if you think the girl is fun and she's messed around a little and it seems good. Will you talk about the future and a relationship or will you just bail if she keeps pulling out the stop cards.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
How long will you players persist?
- Thread starter jasper
- Start date
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
just so suave
Senior Don Juan
wanna find out 
KontrollerX
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You're confusing us DJ's with pick up artists otherwise known as PUA.
A DJ usually filters out games playing women so as to not have to play stupid games but if for some reason a DJ desires to get a games playing woman the answer you are looking for is he will beat her at her own stupid game and work at doing this for as long as it takes or until he gets bored and nexts her.
Its an individual answer really.
As for bailing on a chick...
Thats only done if she continues to say and express beliefs wants and desires for her life that we have no interest in or at least interest in with her on her specified time table that she seems to be subtley pushing towards with us.
A DJ usually filters out games playing women so as to not have to play stupid games but if for some reason a DJ desires to get a games playing woman the answer you are looking for is he will beat her at her own stupid game and work at doing this for as long as it takes or until he gets bored and nexts her.
Its an individual answer really.
As for bailing on a chick...
Thats only done if she continues to say and express beliefs wants and desires for her life that we have no interest in or at least interest in with her on her specified time table that she seems to be subtley pushing towards with us.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
ER!C L!VE
Master Don Juan
Every guy is different - just like every girl is different.jasper said:
I've known guys who will talk about the future of the relationship and how they want it to continue forever (when they really don't). Also, I've been the guy who's girlfriend told him she loved him, then I found her with another guy later that night. :cheer:
I tell girls up front about me dating other girls. Just like some of the girls who I bang tell me about their current boyfriend of 4 years.
If you can find a thread on sosuave discussing the subject matter of your loaded question, then I'll discuss it with you.
Best Regards,
Eric
WC2
Master Don Juan
The problem is when we stop doing what ladies want, they no longer want itjasper said: