"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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How long to wait to ask out on 2nd date

mtlwlu

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Had a great time on a day date with a 9 (in my eyes) great looks and an amazing personality. My ****y funny lines worked like a charm and my neg hits even better. Needless to say it went well, how long before I call for a 2nd date?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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mothballs

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It's dependent on what happened on the date IMO... if you told her that you'd like to take her out again at the end of the date and she reciprocated that idea, 2-3 days max. If however you didn't tell her, I'd say 3-4 days... any longer and she'll probably decide you're only playing games with her and have no real interest. I wouldn't go more than 4 days regardless of the circumstances.
 
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