"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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How long to wait to ask out on 2nd date

mtlwlu

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Had a great time on a day date with a 9 (in my eyes) great looks and an amazing personality. My ****y funny lines worked like a charm and my neg hits even better. Needless to say it went well, how long before I call for a 2nd date?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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mothballs

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It's dependent on what happened on the date IMO... if you told her that you'd like to take her out again at the end of the date and she reciprocated that idea, 2-3 days max. If however you didn't tell her, I'd say 3-4 days... any longer and she'll probably decide you're only playing games with her and have no real interest. I wouldn't go more than 4 days regardless of the circumstances.
 
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