Had a great time on a day date with a 9 (in my eyes) great looks and an amazing personality. My ****y funny lines worked like a charm and my neg hits even better. Needless to say it went well, how long before I call for a 2nd date?
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.