"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
How long to wait after a breakup
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“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Dont come on to her and chat her up.. play it cool. You didn't give much information about your relationship with her but if you havn't talked to her before i would open with something like "Hey, you've been looking a little down these past few days, everything ok?"
Give more info !
Give more info !
Unbridled_Phoenix
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I'd play it cool. Women just out of an LTR are the most unpredictable animals out there. You may set yourself up as the rebound guy, which is good for getting laid for awhile, but as soon as it wears off, she'll drop you like OJs insurance provider and look at you like a leper.
ROFL.Unbridled_Phoenix said:she'll drop you like OJs insurance provider
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
I have been flirting with her from day one, which is half a year ago. We're on pretty good terms. There is one guy in my class though, that's more of a DJ then me. He's also a semi-famous player in the national hockey team, which also helps a lot for him.
I'm going to try to make the best of it though.
I'm going to try to make the best of it though.
**** you.russell said:stop being a creep and start at the beginning. you're already trying to make her your girlfriend and it doesn't even sound like you have much of anything with her.
so you think of yourself as a DJ but think of someone else as "more of a DJ?"
Doesn't make sense. You should be thinking you're the man at all times if you're any type of "DJ"
Also the fact that you want to pursue a chick that just got out of a relationship is laughable at best. You've been flirting with her for 1+ years and haven't made any moves? You're a friend to her and nothing else more than likely. You waited too long.
Go game other girls
Doesn't make sense. You should be thinking you're the man at all times if you're any type of "DJ"
Also the fact that you want to pursue a chick that just got out of a relationship is laughable at best. You've been flirting with her for 1+ years and haven't made any moves? You're a friend to her and nothing else more than likely. You waited too long.
Go game other girls
TheBucketOfTruth
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"Then, after a period of being 'there for you', we slowly remove the two words 'for you', and we're just (Makes a "ta-da!" gesture) 'there'".
In all seriousness, just get closer to her. It sounds like you're already friendly with her, so go from there without letting her know you're trying to bed her.
In all seriousness, just get closer to her. It sounds like you're already friendly with her, so go from there without letting her know you're trying to bed her.
KontrollerX
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"How long should I wait till I ask her out?"
Ask her out as soon as you want.
While she is emotionally vulnerable and in need of escape from her sad feelings is the best time to take advantage of her when you can get her alone.
Just realize that you are going to be the rebound guy and get ditched once her emotions around her ex settle.
Use the time you are with her to bone the living sh!t out of her and when it ends be glad you got up in it for a little while.
Don't ever regard her as your girlfriend no matter what bullsh!t you and she say to eachother about being boyfriend/girlfriend.
Again you will be ditched once her emotions completely settle around her ex boyfriend and she starts to think about what kind of guy she really wants to be with and then gets ready to drop you in order to begin that search.
When you get a chick after she just had an emotionally painful breakup you are on borrowed time until she regains her emotional composure and when that happens she finally sees you as the opportunistic scumbag that you are and if not that she begins to have bad feelings about you in that she associates you with that bad time in her life with her ex so to cut you out of her life both gives her a new start and possibly some affirmation of her worth as a woman when you beg and plead like a puppy dog for her to give you another chance.
So enjoy your time with her while it lasts but don't be an idiot and fall in love with a chick who just had a highly emotionally volatile breakup.
You set yourself up for failure to do so.
Note: To get her into bed quickly after this bad experience of her's you may have to be a bit covert and approach her in such a way that you get her to come hang out with you alone but under the impression that its not a date or anything serious. You put it across as though you want to cheer her up and give her some company since she seems so down about things and then you begin to tell her about what a great girl she is and how pretty you've always found her blah blah blah while throwing in some kino here and there not being too forceful or eager about things and eventually if there is mutual interest there she'll probably fvck you to take her mind off of things or at least some very enjoyable activities that tend to lead towards fvcking. Should she reject this sort of thing from you and get up and leave you either did it wrong or she just wasn't interested at which point you move on to the next chick.
Ask her out as soon as you want.
While she is emotionally vulnerable and in need of escape from her sad feelings is the best time to take advantage of her when you can get her alone.
Just realize that you are going to be the rebound guy and get ditched once her emotions around her ex settle.
Use the time you are with her to bone the living sh!t out of her and when it ends be glad you got up in it for a little while.
Don't ever regard her as your girlfriend no matter what bullsh!t you and she say to eachother about being boyfriend/girlfriend.
Again you will be ditched once her emotions completely settle around her ex boyfriend and she starts to think about what kind of guy she really wants to be with and then gets ready to drop you in order to begin that search.
When you get a chick after she just had an emotionally painful breakup you are on borrowed time until she regains her emotional composure and when that happens she finally sees you as the opportunistic scumbag that you are and if not that she begins to have bad feelings about you in that she associates you with that bad time in her life with her ex so to cut you out of her life both gives her a new start and possibly some affirmation of her worth as a woman when you beg and plead like a puppy dog for her to give you another chance.
So enjoy your time with her while it lasts but don't be an idiot and fall in love with a chick who just had a highly emotionally volatile breakup.
You set yourself up for failure to do so.
Note: To get her into bed quickly after this bad experience of her's you may have to be a bit covert and approach her in such a way that you get her to come hang out with you alone but under the impression that its not a date or anything serious. You put it across as though you want to cheer her up and give her some company since she seems so down about things and then you begin to tell her about what a great girl she is and how pretty you've always found her blah blah blah while throwing in some kino here and there not being too forceful or eager about things and eventually if there is mutual interest there she'll probably fvck you to take her mind off of things or at least some very enjoyable activities that tend to lead towards fvcking. Should she reject this sort of thing from you and get up and leave you either did it wrong or she just wasn't interested at which point you move on to the next chick.
eaglez1177
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Hahahah I agreeUnbridled_Phoenix said:I'd play it cool. Women just out of an LTR are the most unpredictable animals out there. You may set yourself up as the rebound guy, which is good for getting laid for awhile, but as soon as it wears off, she'll drop you like OJs insurance provider and look at you like a leper.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Thanks. And thanks to anyone else who posted usefull advice here.KontrollerX said:"How long should I wait till I ask her out?"
Ask her out as soon as you want.
While she is emotionally vulnerable and in need of escape from her sad feelings is the best time to take advantage of her when you can get her alone.
Just realize that you are going to be the rebound guy and get ditched once her emotions around her ex settle.
Use the time you are with her to bone the living sh!t out of her and when it ends be glad you got up in it for a little while.
Don't ever regard her as your girlfriend no matter what bullsh!t you and she say to eachother about being boyfriend/girlfriend.
Again you will be ditched once her emotions completely settle around her ex boyfriend and she starts to think about what kind of guy she really wants to be with and then gets ready to drop you in order to begin that search.
When you get a chick after she just had an emotionally painful breakup you are on borrowed time until she regains her emotional composure and when that happens she finally sees you as the opportunistic scumbag that you are and if not that she begins to have bad feelings about you in that she associates you with that bad time in her life with her ex so to cut you out of her life both gives her a new start and possibly some affirmation of her worth as a woman when you beg and plead like a puppy dog for her to give you another chance.
So enjoy your time with her while it lasts but don't be an idiot and fall in love with a chick who just had a highly emotionally volatile breakup.
You set yourself up for failure to do so.
Note: To get her into bed quickly after this bad experience of her's you may have to be a bit covert and approach her in such a way that you get her to come hang out with you alone but under the impression that its not a date or anything serious. You put it across as though you want to cheer her up and give her some company since she seems so down about things and then you begin to tell her about what a great girl she is and how pretty you've always found her blah blah blah while throwing in some kino here and there not being too forceful or eager about things and eventually if there is mutual interest there she'll probably fvck you to take her mind off of things or at least some very enjoyable activities that tend to lead towards fvcking. Should she reject this sort of thing from you and get up and leave you either did it wrong or she just wasn't interested at which point you move on to the next chick.