"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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how long to call after first night of sex...

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what up all DJ's, been learning skills from all ya all out there. Quick question, I just slept with this girl last night for the first time and want to keep her in the rotation but not fall into her thinking she is my girlfriend yet.

Am I supposed to call her the next day or so to let her know I wasn't just out for the booty that night and make plans in the future, or let it sit for a bit and jsut call when interested again. I don't want to have her pissed off and feeling used, but don't want to seem over anxious or like and AFC fallin for her. She is an HB9 at least and has guys after her all the time. What is everyones thoughts about followup calls and dates and such.

Thanks all...dcm
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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If you care for her... next day.

If you don't... whenever you feel like.
 
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5 days MINIMUM.

You want to be a challenge and appear confident...

ahahhahaa,....
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I do hope your joking with this question. Of course it would be most polite if you called the next day to see how she is doing. After all she did share her body with you gent.
 
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Next day.
I got in trouble for not calling the next day. Makes the girls feel like they were used if you don't. If you wish to continue nailing her, make sure she has her silly validation. Some girls just want sex, but I would say that the majority will want the call.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I always call the next day.

If i don't call her the next day, i'm guaranteed never to get another fuc* from her.
 
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Next day, but don't specifically mention or hint at any "level" of relationship. Just say you had a good time that night so she feels appreciated, but do NOT bring up ANYTHING that would lead to the "so . . . where are we" question.

Alexi
 
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How do you guys know that you lost her specifically because you didn't call the next day??? I find it extremely hard to pinpoint one move as the basis of my failures. I'm not being argumentative. I truly want to know as I'm a unsure of this question myself. What I'm currently operating with is that sex is cool but not a bigger deal than anything else.
 
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I called the next day and banged the girl on 2 more separate occasions before i started to make some AFC type moves and she lost interest plus she still had some emotional baggage which made me lose interest...
 
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it depends on the hookup.. did you meet at a party and bring her back and fck her? have you known this girl and developed some sort of raport with her?

If you dont really know her dont call next day.. it was a one night stand.. maybe a week down the road hit her up for another..

If you do know the girl call the next day just to say you had fun and that the two of you will have to do it again sometime.. then get off the phone.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Originally posted by sfalexi
Next day, but don't specifically mention or hint at any "level" of relationship. Just say you had a good time that night so she feels appreciated, but do NOT bring up ANYTHING that would lead to the "so . . . where are we" question.

Alexi
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Wait a second, sfalexi aren't you the guy who recently popped his cherry with a hooker?? Are you basing your advice on this encounter?? Did you really call her back? :p
 
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Originally posted by MrHarris
I do hope your joking with this question. Of course it would be most polite if you called the next day to see how she is doing. After all she did share her body with you gent.
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agreed. call her the next day to see how she is doing, having a good day at work, etc etc

then play it by ear

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Originally posted by AlwaysExcel
Wait a second, sfalexi aren't you the guy who recently popped his cherry with a hooker?? Are you basing your advice on this encounter?? Did you really call her back? :p
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HAHAHHAHAHHA
 
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