“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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How long should I tan for?

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Didn't really wanna piggy back this.

But i wanna know how long to tan. I get a lot of direct sunlight (new mexico) and I don't really wanna overdo it. I think i'm just gonna throw on some spf 15 and sit out there for 30 front and 30 back. Is that to long or should i go longer?
 

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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Depends on your skin tone. I think it's best to gradually get tan over a period of days. This way you won't end up burning. So 30 minutes front and 30 back would probably be best.
 

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it depends too on how strong the sun is that day or where you live is?

if the sun is really strong and youre very white with 15 mins you will burn.... like lets say for example in houston

the other day i was playing basketball outside without shirt and with about 30 mins i got red...i didnt burn, bc im really tan but i was close to
 

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No SPF! Why is this so complicated??

You put on sunblock to BLOCK the sun!

The only reason why you'd want sunblock on is if you're going to be out in the sun for a long time anyway. If you're just going to lay out to tan, put no SPF on and lay out for 10 minutes (give or take depending on your skin type - hard with no picture). The next day, depending on how your skin reacted the first day, lay out a little more or less. Repeat.
 

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You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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It's best to start out small and build yourself up. Say 20 minutes the first time you try it, and see if you redden up. If not, lay out for 30 the next day... if you're still good, try 40. So on and so forth. If you try overdoing it and lay out too long the first day, you're going to burn and have to wait for the peeling to stop before trying it again...

Slow & steady wins the race...
 

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Yep, The Bishop is right. You need to take it steady, but once you build a light foundation tan then you'll find that you can spend longer in the sun and your skin reacts much better.

Also, moisturize your skin when you come in from the sun as this helps prevent peeling, dryness and premature ageing.
 

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Spending even 30 minutes in the sun will burn and could cause more skin damage than spending all day in the sun. That was the latest research I heard. For example, those who take 30 minute lunch breaks and sit in the sun for their break are more prone to skin cancer than those who work in the sun all day.

If your in Australia, WATCH OUT. Australia has the highest rate of skin cancer per capita than any other country in the world!
 

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CLOONY, did you mean all day in the sun with sunblock? What you say makes no sense :p
 

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Originally posted by Shiftkey
CLOONY, did you mean all day in the sun with sunblock? What you say makes no sense :p
What I said makes perfect sense. U just gotta learn to read.......

People who spend all day in the sun, apparently their skin becomes resilient to the sun and means their chances of getting skin cancer drop.

People who only expose themselves to the sun for say, one 30 minute block a day, u wont burn (as in go red), but your skin will be damaged and will give u a higher chance of getting skin cancer.

I am simply stating the latest research findings I have heard. I am no scientist and dont claim to be.
 

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She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Oh I have to learn to read? I guess that's the same place they teach you how to spell the word "you" huh?

Maybe you should've made it more clear WHY it is that people who spend all day in the sun are at less risk for cancer, which you did in your second reply - the built up resistance to the sun (a tan) does this. Very interesting.
 

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Originally posted by CLOONEY
What I said makes perfect sense. U just gotta learn to read.......

People who spend all day in the sun, apparently their skin becomes resilient to the sun and means their chances of getting skin cancer drop.

People who only expose themselves to the sun for say, one 30 minute block a day, u wont burn (as in go red), but your skin will be damaged and will give u a higher chance of getting skin cancer.

I am simply stating the latest research findings I have heard. I am no scientist and dont claim to be.
Its not that he needs to learn to read, but poor baby shiftkey likes things to be spoonfed to him because he doesnt like to think about what someone says.
 

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It's not my fault that some people don't write clearly.

He said people who spend all day in the sun are at less risk for cancer. He said nothing about those people already having a tan. The way it was written, it sounded like it's bad for the average person to go into the sun for 30 minutes, but if that person stayed past 30 minutes it's magically good for him.
 

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Originally posted by Shiftkey
It's not my fault that some people don't write clearly.

He said people who spend all day in the sun are at less risk for cancer. He said nothing about those people already having a tan. The way it was written, it sounded like it's bad for the average person to go into the sun for 30 minutes, but if that person stayed past 30 minutes it's magically good for him.
lol, I am not going to argue such a stupid topic. However Shift, u sure seem to have made your enemies around here.

As for writing clearly, others seem to have understood it.........but I can see your point.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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As for writing clearly, others seem to have understood it.........but I can see your point.
THANK YOU! Geez, I don't know why I was getting attacked for this.

Just because I say something doesn't make sense to me, doesn't mean I'm flaming you.
 
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