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how long should i give her??

daboywonder2002

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let's see. last sat, i met this girl at the club. we danced a few times. and i got her number. i called her late sunday night, say around 7 pm. convo went great. now, i know that usually you should wait a few days before calling. but i am not sure that applies to everyone. cause if you wait to call me, ill forget about you. so i wanted to be fresh in her mind. anyways, she called me on monday and we talked for a few.Anyways, i decided to make plans to hook up. at first, she was like cool. but later on during the week. say wed. she wasnt feeling well. i didnt speak to her tues. so thursday, i called her to see if we were still going out. i got the voice mail but didnt leave a message. so thurs night, i called her again like around 11pm. and left a message for her to call me at either home or work. my question is how long should i give this girl before i start to make other plans?? im not trying to wait around forever. we were supposed to go out on sat. i hate when females cancel at the last minute so that any backup plans we could have are screwed. but i dont want to seem like an impatient jerk either.
 

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Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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whistler

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Originally posted by daboywonder2002
at first, she was like cool. but later on during the week. say wed. she wasnt feeling well. i didnt speak to her tues. so thursday, i called her to see if we were still going out. i got the voice mail but didnt leave a message. so thurs night, i called her again like around 11pm. and left a message for her to call me at either home or work. my question is how long should i give this girl before i start to make other plans??
Simple stuff. Stop calling her. If she's interested, she'll call. But it doesn't sound like she is.
 

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i know that usually you should wait a few days before calling. but i am not sure that applies to everyone. cause if you wait to call me, ill forget about you. so i wanted to be fresh in her mind
Trust me bro, if a girl is truly interested she will NOT forget about you.
 

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You're wasting your mental energy on this flaky h0.
 
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