"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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how long should i give her??

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let's see. last sat, i met this girl at the club. we danced a few times. and i got her number. i called her late sunday night, say around 7 pm. convo went great. now, i know that usually you should wait a few days before calling. but i am not sure that applies to everyone. cause if you wait to call me, ill forget about you. so i wanted to be fresh in her mind. anyways, she called me on monday and we talked for a few.Anyways, i decided to make plans to hook up. at first, she was like cool. but later on during the week. say wed. she wasnt feeling well. i didnt speak to her tues. so thursday, i called her to see if we were still going out. i got the voice mail but didnt leave a message. so thurs night, i called her again like around 11pm. and left a message for her to call me at either home or work. my question is how long should i give this girl before i start to make other plans?? im not trying to wait around forever. we were supposed to go out on sat. i hate when females cancel at the last minute so that any backup plans we could have are screwed. but i dont want to seem like an impatient jerk either.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Originally posted by daboywonder2002
at first, she was like cool. but later on during the week. say wed. she wasnt feeling well. i didnt speak to her tues. so thursday, i called her to see if we were still going out. i got the voice mail but didnt leave a message. so thurs night, i called her again like around 11pm. and left a message for her to call me at either home or work. my question is how long should i give this girl before i start to make other plans??
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Simple stuff. Stop calling her. If she's interested, she'll call. But it doesn't sound like she is.
 
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i know that usually you should wait a few days before calling. but i am not sure that applies to everyone. cause if you wait to call me, ill forget about you. so i wanted to be fresh in her mind
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Trust me bro, if a girl is truly interested she will NOT forget about you.
 
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You're wasting your mental energy on this flaky h0.
 
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