"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

Read more...

How long should I ganji her?

RU18QT?

Don Juan
Joined
Oct 3, 2007
Messages
26
Reaction score
0
Girl I've seen a few times flaked on me the other day. I wouldn't have cared if she would have call and canceled but she decided to ignore my call 20mins before we were supposed to get together. She's usually always answers my calls and sticks to plans with me. I am faily positive when she flaked she was with another guy who's just a complete ******* so I have competition. The next morning she txted me saying she was sorry and that she would make it up to me. I ignored her txt... she sent me a picture txt later that night but it didnt work and i didnt bother responding. She's called me 2 times today that I have ignored both times.

How long would you wait before picking up one of her calls?? I think after the weekend maybe.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

Read more...

COD

Master Don Juan
Joined
Mar 19, 2006
Messages
1,197
Reaction score
30
DUDE, who cares if theres was another guy........pick up the phone ask her how she is going to make it up to you.

then get her naked............sheesh so many guys worry what if she flakes........GO TO THE NEXT CHIC........always have a back up plan dude.

WHY.......cause that way you treat her like just another vagina......thats all she is. She was busy.......who cares, another guy got the goods before you.......who cares........so u had to wait 1 whole day.......AWWWWW poor baby.

GET a few chics and date em all.........SHE ALREADY SAID SHE WOULD MAKE IT UP TO YOU...........take full advantage of her GENEROUS OFFER.

FORGET THE NOT ANSWERING BS GAMES, NEXTING BS, active diss-interest routines and BANG HER THEN LOSE HER.........then watch her beg to be with you. But do this after you bang her.........not before.

Dont think.........JUST DO IT.......way too much complexity in these forums. Gotta luv getting advice from guys that know all the answers yet never bang multiple chics.
 

DJ Wrangler

Don Juan
Joined
Jul 30, 2007
Messages
37
Reaction score
0
Location
San Luis Obispo, CA
COD said:
DUDE, who cares if theres was another guy........pick up the phone ask her how she is going to make it up to you.

then get her naked............sheesh so many guys worry what if she flakes........GO TO THE NEXT CHIC........always have a back up plan dude.

WHY.......cause that way you treat her like just another vagina......thats all she is. She was busy.......who cares, another guy got the goods before you.......who cares........so u had to wait 1 whole day.......AWWWWW poor baby.

GET a few chics and date em all.........SHE ALREADY SAID SHE WOULD MAKE IT UP TO YOU...........take full advantage of her GENEROUS OFFER.

FORGET THE NOT ANSWERING BS GAMES, NEXTING BS, active diss-interest routines and BANG HER THEN LOSE HER.........then watch her beg to be with you. But do this after you bang her.........not before.

Dont think.........JUST DO IT.......way too much complexity in these forums. Gotta luv getting advice from guys that know all the answers yet never bang multiple chics.
yet you have to laugh when you see responses like this...

anyways, its like fishing, dont wait to set the line too long or she'll spit the bait out, one day of ignoring is enough, especially when she tries to contact you frantically like she did... go back in and ask for a favor! lol
 

DJ Wrangler

Don Juan
Joined
Jul 30, 2007
Messages
37
Reaction score
0
Location
San Luis Obispo, CA
Danger said:
The right thing to do is take her next call, and tell her flat out to NEVER flake on you again. ...
idk if i would even do this, it might make you look like an a$$hole, someone whos anger might have a little problem. Shes not stupid, she got the hint...
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

Read more...

Play the Game

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 5, 2007
Messages
680
Reaction score
6
Location
Nirvana
COD said:
DUDE, who cares if theres was another guy........pick up the phone ask her how she is going to make it up to you.

then get her naked............sheesh so many guys worry what if she flakes........GO TO THE NEXT CHIC........always have a back up plan dude.

WHY.......cause that way you treat her like just another vagina......thats all she is. She was busy.......who cares, another guy got the goods before you.......who cares........so u had to wait 1 whole day.......AWWWWW poor baby.

GET a few chics and date em all.........SHE ALREADY SAID SHE WOULD MAKE IT UP TO YOU...........take full advantage of her GENEROUS OFFER.

FORGET THE NOT ANSWERING BS GAMES, NEXTING BS, active diss-interest routines and BANG HER THEN LOSE HER.........then watch her beg to be with you. But do this after you bang her.........not before.

Dont think.........JUST DO IT.......way too much complexity in these forums. Gotta luv getting advice from guys that know all the answers yet never bang multiple chics.
Sometimes i wonder if these people ever think on their own or just recite what the bible says. Ignoring her twice isn't going to make her forget about what an undesirable wuss you are. Nailing her friend is. I'm with you dude. Nail her, nail her friend, nail another chick... keep on walking.
 

DJ Wrangler

Don Juan
Joined
Jul 30, 2007
Messages
37
Reaction score
0
Location
San Luis Obispo, CA
Danger said:
I would say it's ok and she knows she deserves it. You don't have to yell when you say it, just be serious.

You would be surprised how many women I've had to deal with in this kind of manner and it never pushed any of them away.
deserves it? im still a little skeptical on the whole thing, still seems standoff-ish. but if your saying it works im going to try it! no harm no foul? lol
 

RU18QT?

Don Juan
Joined
Oct 3, 2007
Messages
26
Reaction score
0
Well she called again... I was out for a beer with a buddy and was in the middle of a story when she called and ignored it again. I do think she's got the point now!

my next question is now.. do i pick up the phone and call her or do i wait for another call attempt? I am thinking she's already done enough to get ahold of me and I should call her and see what she's going to do for me to make things better.
 

Remulak

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Nov 11, 2005
Messages
323
Reaction score
2
Location
Сиби́рь Sub-ArtiC
RU18QT? said:
Girl I've seen a few times flaked on me the other day. I wouldn't have cared if she would have call and canceled but she decided to ignore my call 20mins before we were supposed to get together. She's usually always answers my calls and sticks to plans with me. I am faily positive when she flaked she was with another guy who's just a complete ******* so I have competition. The next morning she txted me saying she was sorry and that she would make it up to me. I ignored her txt... she sent me a picture txt later that night but it didnt work and i didnt bother responding. She's called me 2 times today that I have ignored both times.

How long would you wait before picking up one of her calls?? I think after the weekend maybe.
Wow man, are you looking to drive yourself crazy or what? This girl is playing head games like a mutha. The thing about ganji is that it can work in certain situations but if the girl comes back to you she's usually just looking for the validation to see if you'll answer her phone call/text message whatever. Once you do, she'll be back to her antics playing you for a fool. It's not worth it in the long run and you should just look for other girls. If you really want to get with this girl, play on a female's worst emotion, jealousy. Get another girl and indirectly let her know about it. She'll be on you like flies on shyt. Not what you wanted to hear? Okay, carry own with the games.
 

DonJuan11

Master Don Juan
Joined
Aug 16, 2007
Messages
1,667
Reaction score
35
RU18QT? said:
my next question is now.. do i pick up the phone and call her or do i wait for another call attempt? I am thinking she's already done enough to get ahold of me and I should call her and see what she's going to do for me to make things better.

You have already waited too long. I would have ignored the first text for about 10 hours and then texted back or definitely picked up at least the 2nd call. Your playing way too many games and she's probably done with you.

If a girl ignored two of my texts and two phone calls after I said sorry, I would think she was sleeping with Brad while I was phoning, and probably wouldn't talk to her for at least a month.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

Read more...

Top