"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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How long of a wait is too long after getting the number

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I see the question of how soon should one call being asked all the time, but never seen the "when is it been too long" side of the coin.

The reason I am asking is becuase I got a few numbers last week, but was unable to follow up due to a busy schedule; its been a week for one and little more than a week for 2 more.

What do you guys say; is there a time frame after which its a dead number or is it still worth the shot after 6-10 days?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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There is no dead time like that, Since its only a week or so. You are still good
You can reinitiate by telling who you are!
 

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Wait 8 weeks and text her "What's crackin."

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=a9rboYn0qcE

But really, I'd rather not wait 2 weeks to talk to a new chick. But what can you do? If you were in a less-busy place in life, you'd contact her in 2 or 3 days. But you're not. So if she can't handle that, then f**k it.

In summary: 2 weeks CAN be too long. 1 week isnt. But if the girl is seriously interested, then she'll still be excited about the prospect of getting with you.
 

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I don't think either have too much of IL since one I met at a bar, one was a Starbucks bartista who gave me her # on the sleeve of the cup after a 2 min conversation (without me asking), and another I met months ago and just saw her again and got her number.

Either way ill contact them all; I really don't care about length of time but since I see a lot of questions regarding time tables, I figured Ill ask you guys on opinions regarding waiting too long.

You confirmed my gut feeling; thanks!
 

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anyone else find teh word barista pretentious as hell? u make coffee, ur job is called coffee maker *****.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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