once i may start a rlationship with a girl typicallly youd get the goods with in 2 weeks, sometimes you get the goods before actually in a realtionship which is rather more common, but sometimes they may want to be in a realtionship for a while then go in that direction, i had a girl that took a month, hung in there but was thinking it wasnt going to happen and almost moved on , so when would some of yall give up and move on, cuz i was thinking maybe she wasnt serious with me, and going on little dates here and there was all she was into
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
how long is too long to wait to get the goods once dating
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Longest I've waited was over 3 months and it was with my now current gf. Good things come to those who wait, but, and this is a BIG but, I was seeing and banging other chicks during this waiting period.
Never would I have waited that long only seeing her.
It was a bumpy road and many times I came close to nexting her but now things have flourished into a great sexual relationship.
Never would I have waited that long only seeing her.
It was a bumpy road and many times I came close to nexting her but now things have flourished into a great sexual relationship.
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Women that make you wait often aren't worth the effort.
I've found that 2 months is the peak of the romance/attraction phase of the honeymoon stage. Whether you hooked up the night you met or whether she made you wait that long, the two-month milestone is well worth reaching. If it goes much longer than that you know she's not too crazy about you. I'd say 3 months is the ultimate limit (you actually physically age in that amount of time - the minimum to produce a telemer shortening).