"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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how long is too long to wait to get the goods once dating

whosthat

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once i may start a rlationship with a girl typicallly youd get the goods with in 2 weeks, sometimes you get the goods before actually in a realtionship which is rather more common, but sometimes they may want to be in a realtionship for a while then go in that direction, i had a girl that took a month, hung in there but was thinking it wasnt going to happen and almost moved on , so when would some of yall give up and move on, cuz i was thinking maybe she wasnt serious with me, and going on little dates here and there was all she was into
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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shizz702

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Longest I've waited was over 3 months and it was with my now current gf. Good things come to those who wait, but, and this is a BIG but, I was seeing and banging other chicks during this waiting period.

Never would I have waited that long only seeing her.

It was a bumpy road and many times I came close to nexting her but now things have flourished into a great sexual relationship.
 

bigneil

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I've found that 2 months is the peak of the romance/attraction phase of the honeymoon stage. Whether you hooked up the night you met or whether she made you wait that long, the two-month milestone is well worth reaching. If it goes much longer than that you know she's not too crazy about you. I'd say 3 months is the ultimate limit (you actually physically age in that amount of time - the minimum to produce a telemer shortening).
 
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