You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
shaunuk said:Hmm, well, 2lbs seems to be lasting me about 5 days, damn..
-shaun
lol, yeah. I'll admit, I often just turn to my whey because it's so easy to mix up a quick shake and chug loads of protein down, but I'm making a concious effort to drink less whey now, as it can get a bit expensive.Warboss Alex said:
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Warboss Alex said:
shaunuk said:lol, yeah. I'll admit, I often just turn to my whey because it's so easy to mix up a quick shake and chug loads of protein down, but I'm making a concious effort to drink less whey now, as it can get a bit expensive.
Instead, cheap protein sources are tuna, and I can get 2 cans down for 60+g of protein reasonably easily. HOWEVER, can anyone suggest any alternate cheap sources of protein, please, because let's face it...tuna is ****ing disgusting.
-shaun