"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I'm friend w/ this girl and she's going abroad to Japan. We won't see each other for about 5 months. Do u think 5 months of not seeing each other, not contacting each other r adequate for getting out of the friendzone?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I'm friend w/ this girl and she's going abroad to Japan. We won't see each other for about 5 months. Do u think 5 months of not seeing each other, not contacting each other r adequate for getting out of the friendzone?
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You have problems if you think being her friend is wrong. Seriously, what is wrong with being her friend? Is she using you or something?
 
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I'm friend w/ this girl and she's going abroad to Japan. We won't see each other for about 5 months. Do u think 5 months of not seeing each other, not contacting each other r adequate for getting out of the friendzone?
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I say no,but it really depends on how long you've known the girl.


The theory is if you can go no contact long enough for her to FORGET ABOUT THE "OLD" YOU,then you can re-approach her,and avoid doing whatever it was that caused you to fall into the friendzone in the first place.


And that's HARD to do.


There are too many "if" that have to fall into place to get out of the friendzone.



Her forgetting the "old you" is just one thing that has to happen. YOU will also have to have worked on yourself to understand where you went wrong and what it was about yourself that made her friendzone you.



Otherwise,even if she didn't remember you when she returned and you could re-apporach her,you'd just make the same mistake all over again a second time.


Frankly,I do not believe there is a way out of the friendzone. That's just me.




The longer you've known her,the greater the chance you'll NEVER DATE HER.
 
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