"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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how long do you wait to kiss a girl before u next her?

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say you meet a girl at a party/club whatever... and you talk on the phone a few times, meet up again at a club or 2, whatever

how long do you wait before you kiss her before you next?

answer these:

how many dates?
how many times you go out (non dates) ie to parties/clubs/bars?

and this is a HB8 and has a decent personality but nothing to fall in love with



personally i would wait 2-3 dates and 3-4 "outtings"

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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I don't really know what you are getting at but if you are asking when you should go for the kiss.....ASAP. I usually kiss a girl on my first date/outing.
 
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Originally posted by Sir Shags Alot
I don't really know what you are getting at but if you are asking when you should go for the kiss.....ASAP. I usually kiss a girl on my first date/outing.
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i usually go for the kiss when i feel the mood is right (not to say i wait forever, i WILL make the move) but what if SHE never lets that happen (ie-end of date she is in a hurry to leave, no real chance when going out, etc)
 
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The mood will never seem right at the beginning, if it does, it means shes been waiting for a while and is pushing the subject...First date, doesn't mean it has to be out of the blue, but don't wait for the 'perfect' moment...


Its like waiting for the 'perfect' moment to go hit on a girl, it'll never be there, so just do it...
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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