"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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how long do you wait to kiss a girl before u next her?

white_hype

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say you meet a girl at a party/club whatever... and you talk on the phone a few times, meet up again at a club or 2, whatever

how long do you wait before you kiss her before you next?

answer these:

how many dates?
how many times you go out (non dates) ie to parties/clubs/bars?

and this is a HB8 and has a decent personality but nothing to fall in love with



personally i would wait 2-3 dates and 3-4 "outtings"

u?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Sir Shags Alot

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I don't really know what you are getting at but if you are asking when you should go for the kiss.....ASAP. I usually kiss a girl on my first date/outing.
 

white_hype

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Originally posted by Sir Shags Alot
I don't really know what you are getting at but if you are asking when you should go for the kiss.....ASAP. I usually kiss a girl on my first date/outing.
i usually go for the kiss when i feel the mood is right (not to say i wait forever, i WILL make the move) but what if SHE never lets that happen (ie-end of date she is in a hurry to leave, no real chance when going out, etc)
 

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The mood will never seem right at the beginning, if it does, it means shes been waiting for a while and is pushing the subject...First date, doesn't mean it has to be out of the blue, but don't wait for the 'perfect' moment...


Its like waiting for the 'perfect' moment to go hit on a girl, it'll never be there, so just do it...
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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