"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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How long do you wait to contact your plates and through what medium?

How much time do you wait to set up a hangout after getting a new number?

  • One day (~24 hours)

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  • Another increment of time not listed here (specify or GTFO)

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Masculinity

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Do not count the initial text message or phone call that some of us give so that she has our number. I have seen a lot of threads asking this transition from getting a number to establishing contact. As simply put in the title, how many days do you wait (if any) to contact your new plate? Do you call or text her? What kind of first hangout do you set up and how successful is it?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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El Payaso

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3 - 4 days.
 

Nickface

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I would wait 2 days most likely with 3 days depending if I got the number on a Friday. Initially I would always text until about the 3rd or 4th date in.

For the first date, it sounds cliche but I always tend to play the safe side, so I go with coffee or bar and only for a short amount of time. This is pretty subjective because it depends what kind of chick you attracted. Shy, coy girl gets the coffee while bar, club girl gets drinks and my balls in her hand.

I tend to get a pretty good success rate. It's the weeks after that I burn the bridge on.
 
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