"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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How long do you wait to contact your plates and through what medium?

How much time do you wait to set up a hangout after getting a new number?

  • One day (~24 hours)

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Masculinity

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Do not count the initial text message or phone call that some of us give so that she has our number. I have seen a lot of threads asking this transition from getting a number to establishing contact. As simply put in the title, how many days do you wait (if any) to contact your new plate? Do you call or text her? What kind of first hangout do you set up and how successful is it?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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El Payaso

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3 - 4 days.
 

Nickface

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I would wait 2 days most likely with 3 days depending if I got the number on a Friday. Initially I would always text until about the 3rd or 4th date in.

For the first date, it sounds cliche but I always tend to play the safe side, so I go with coffee or bar and only for a short amount of time. This is pretty subjective because it depends what kind of chick you attracted. Shy, coy girl gets the coffee while bar, club girl gets drinks and my balls in her hand.

I tend to get a pretty good success rate. It's the weeks after that I burn the bridge on.
 
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