how long do you wait before you follow up a semi counter offer?

[big weezy]

for instance if i contact a HB to meet up this week and she says she's going abroad till sunday so we'll have to postpone it to the week after.

i understand if a HB has high IL she'll offer you a specific day well in advance..

i just text back 'ok'

now Sunday has passed, should i really wait till she contacts me about that meet up and if she doesn't when is the best time to do so..? thurs or fri?

 

[Uncharted]

Text her back something that she has to elaborate on like "how was your trip"?

Get a back-and-forth going. Then don't say anything for a day, call her up and ask her for a specific day. If she turns you down without a specific reschedule day, it's probably over.

 

[VladPatton]

I hate those semi-counteroffers. I treat them as no counteroffer. See what she does after some radio silence; the true divider of interest/non-interest.

 

[pdx1138]

agreed.

If the IL is truly there, they will be anxious to meet asap.

 

[big weezy]

I hate those semi-counteroffers. I treat them as no counteroffer. See what she does after some radio silence; the true divider of interest/non-interest.

yeah that was what i was planning to do.. f sake.. my afc keeps returning. i prob would have done if i got some other numbers this weekend. bit of a rut pre valentines. anyway lesson learned