"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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How long do you pursue a shy lady until moving on/giving up?

How long until you stop pursing a shy lady?

  • 0, I don't go for the shy ones

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  • a few weeks

    Votes: 2 66.7%
  • couple of months

    Votes: 0 0.0%
  • as long as it takes to make her mine

    Votes: 1 33.3%

  • Total voters
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Johari7

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Given that you assume she's interested and not take her mixed signals probably due to insecurity as her being disinterested?
I know it's frustrating AF to deal with but I heard they make the best girlfriends or are freaks in bed :whistle:
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Johari7 said:
Given that you assume she's interested and not take her mixed signals probably due to insecurity as her being disinterested?
I know it's frustrating AF to deal with but I heard they make the best girlfriends or are freaks in bed :whistle:
Add some common sense.

How long would you pursue any girl? Pursue is the wrong word, it's more like courting or dueling.

Sadly shy women are often not the freaks in the bed you dream about.
 
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Lozboss said:
Add some common sense.

How long would you pursue any girl? Pursue is the wrong word, it's more like courting or dueling.

Sadly shy women are often not the freaks in the bed you dream about.
I've had a bunch of women who aren't the most talkative who are sexually explorative and freaky in the bedroom. My worst experiences are with the loudest mouth ones.
 

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DaddyLongShanks said:
I've had a bunch of women who aren't the most talkative who are sexually explorative and freaky in the bedroom. My worst experiences are with the loudest mouth ones.
Key word is Often here- not all shy women.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

Read more...

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Pursue isn't just the wrong word; it's the wrong mindset. You are putting this girl on a pedestal for no good reason. You make a move and if she's not receptive you just move on. That's it.
 
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