"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

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How long do you pursue a shy lady until moving on/giving up?

How long until you stop pursing a shy lady?

  • 0, I don't go for the shy ones

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  • a few weeks

    Votes: 2 66.7%
  • couple of months

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  • as long as it takes to make her mine

    Votes: 1 33.3%

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Johari7

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Given that you assume she's interested and not take her mixed signals probably due to insecurity as her being disinterested?
I know it's frustrating AF to deal with but I heard they make the best girlfriends or are freaks in bed :whistle:
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Johari7 said:
Given that you assume she's interested and not take her mixed signals probably due to insecurity as her being disinterested?
I know it's frustrating AF to deal with but I heard they make the best girlfriends or are freaks in bed :whistle:
Add some common sense.

How long would you pursue any girl? Pursue is the wrong word, it's more like courting or dueling.

Sadly shy women are often not the freaks in the bed you dream about.
 
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Lozboss said:
Add some common sense.

How long would you pursue any girl? Pursue is the wrong word, it's more like courting or dueling.

Sadly shy women are often not the freaks in the bed you dream about.
I've had a bunch of women who aren't the most talkative who are sexually explorative and freaky in the bedroom. My worst experiences are with the loudest mouth ones.
 

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DaddyLongShanks said:
I've had a bunch of women who aren't the most talkative who are sexually explorative and freaky in the bedroom. My worst experiences are with the loudest mouth ones.
Key word is Often here- not all shy women.
 

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You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Pursue isn't just the wrong word; it's the wrong mindset. You are putting this girl on a pedestal for no good reason. You make a move and if she's not receptive you just move on. That's it.
 
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