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She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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How long do IL of girls last?

BlackDragon

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Yesturday I notice a girl in my class might have some interst in me. When I was waiting for class this girl gave me a really big smile and looked at me longer than usual. When I think about it now, she has been showing some signs the pass weeks when I flirt with her. I wasn't in too much of a good mood that day so I didnt go for her number. I might not see her till next week, and I was just wonding how long would high IL last?
 

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Originally posted by BlackDragon
Yesturday I notice a girl in my class might have some interst in me. When I was waiting for class this girl gave me a really big smile and looked at me longer than usual. When I think about it now, she has been showing some signs the pass weeks when I flirt with her. I wasn't in too much of a good mood that day so I didnt go for her number. I might not see her till next week, and I was just wonding how long would high IL last?
It depends. But if you haven't even made contact yet, she's not gonna wait forever.
 

The Bad Ass Canadian

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Never knew IL had a set expiry date...lol

It all depends, i guess. If you have your sh!t together, you can hold a girls interst for quite some time, i think. But if you mess up and make some stupid moves you can lose her IL right away.

If you want her, then don't wait too long.

Make your move.
 

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There is no exact science to this. Just to give an example... A girl I met at a party and got the nr of her friend one week later, sent some SMS but I got bored and we lost contact. I contacted her 4 MONTHS later with ONE SMS and the day after she invited me over for a massage, wine and ****.... = SEX.. Go figure.
 
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