How long do i wait to call

[gimmeyofonenumba]

got a chick's number, because a group of us from school are supposed to be meeting up later, but how long should i wait to call? since school is over, like what 2 days? also, can i perhaps call sat/sun and ask to do something that day? maybe just get some coffee or something. I dont wanna give like 5 days of preperation, damn by then she prolly would've forgotten about me, I feel as if i need to move in more sooner than later.

 

[WORKEROUTER]

No she won't "forget" you.

In fact, it will make you seem more mysterious, and she'll think that you are one of the few guys who has a life.

I say call her in 3-4 days. Tell her you were busy the past few days, but wouldn't mind setting up a date to get together.

 

[ARK]

Call her in three days, 5 hours, 43 minutes and 28 seconds.

 

[frivolousz21]

call her in 3 days

after you smoke a blunt !

 

[gimmeyofonenumba]

Originally posted by ARK
Call her in three days, 5 hours, 43 minutes and 28 seconds.

Will do! also, im just gonna lay it out real simple.. " hey, whats goin on, i wanna talk to you, lets meet up for some______" now, after we go for coffe, when is a good time to leave, i think most people make the mistake of leaving when the conversaion dulls, also, do i setup the next date there, and whats a good place to after coffe??? lotsa questions, thanks yall

 

[ARK]

Im not in to the whole coffee date stuff. That sounds like something friends would do to meet and talk.

Conversate then say your intent. "I would like to take you, blah blah blah.." Set up the next date via the phone. Call her after a couple days, ask her how she is and proceed to ask her out again.

 

[Derek Flint]

Call her whenever you want, as long as it's not coming from a postion of neediness.

 

[Triple X]

Originally posted by ARK
Call her in three days, 5 hours, 43 minutes and 28 seconds.

:crackup:

 

[Metalixia]

a little while ago, i hit on a random girl on the bus for 30 mins. I got her number, then phoned her 2 weeks later (I genuinly am busy, and DO have a life) and she was still warm.

 

[Sh0t]

call her when you want to and can see her

 

[gimmeyofonenumba]

Originally posted by Derek Flint
Call her whenever you want, as long as it's not coming from a postion of neediness.

how do i not seem needy?

 

[Serialized3]

like the other guys said, just keep it short and to the point, and don't call any later than 4 days, cos otherwise she might think you're playing games with her or she'll forget about you.

 

[Bonhomme]

Statistically speaking...

2 days has been best for me. Sometimes 3, hardly ever later. By day 4 the vibe is way down.

But bear in mind my game is more physical than verbal. It's all about the vibe. So it may even be best for me to call the very next day. Often gals beat me to the punch and call first: usually on the 2nd day -- which tells you something about their expectations.

But that said, do what you want. I just advise you not wait too bloody long, or your odds drop.