"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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how long did it take before for your first GF/ONS?

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How long did it take you guys to get your first GF/lay/ONS etc after starting DJ bible ? Which Steps in the DJ Bible did you find harder ?

For me, I just started this like 2 or 3 weeks ago, and and making some slow , but solid progress ..I've improved every week surely, but I STILL haven't gotten Laid... ., . ..like just last week I couldn't hold a conv with a stranger , but this week I was able to talk with two or three women at target....Previously I could hold down the approach.. but making that next critical step for me is huge me....I've incorporated the 3s rule somewhat so thats helping me..

The next steps of stepping up dates with people I've only had like a 5 minute convo with , thats probably the next big hurdle I see...

, so I think I'll hear a lot of general answers like it takes some more, and some less time..

Well,anyway, just curious how others took to this. which Steps were the hardest ? ...
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Phyzzle

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Starting from being a total AFC, it easily takes 6 months of practice to get laid.

The next steps of stepping up dates with people I've only had like a 5 minute convo with , thats probably the next big hurdle I see...
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Yeah, that really was the hardest/most frustrating part of all for me.

Once you get some dates, the nervousness goes away real quick, and you learn how to make the conversation flow. But turning those numbers into a 1st date, man oh man that's hard. The 1st 10 #s you get won't even answer their phone or return a message.
 
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sexy_kuta

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EDIT: i thought u were asking on how to get over ons lol

man its hard and to tell u the truth gettin laid wont help

i fuked some girl in the park 3 days ago.. still feel the same.. itsl ike w/e right?

trick is u gotta deal with it no matter wat, just take it slow.. dont break down and get out.. meet more girls..

the more girls u meet the less u will think of her and i think thats the best trick there

cuz when u gamming another girl u think less about the first one...

and keep ur self busy... very busy..

work out everyday or something

it will take anywhere from 2 weeks to 2 months

theres stages u have to go through
 
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GloriouslyInsane

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The best advice i can give you to minimize this timeframe you're aking about is not to revert back to your old self once some serious progress has been made with a girl.
 
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