"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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how long did it take before for your first GF/ONS?

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donArjun

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How long did it take you guys to get your first GF/lay/ONS etc after starting DJ bible ? Which Steps in the DJ Bible did you find harder ?

For me, I just started this like 2 or 3 weeks ago, and and making some slow , but solid progress ..I've improved every week surely, but I STILL haven't gotten Laid... ., . ..like just last week I couldn't hold a conv with a stranger , but this week I was able to talk with two or three women at target....Previously I could hold down the approach.. but making that next critical step for me is huge me....I've incorporated the 3s rule somewhat so thats helping me..

The next steps of stepping up dates with people I've only had like a 5 minute convo with , thats probably the next big hurdle I see...

, so I think I'll hear a lot of general answers like it takes some more, and some less time..

Well,anyway, just curious how others took to this. which Steps were the hardest ? ...
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Phyzzle

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Starting from being a total AFC, it easily takes 6 months of practice to get laid.

The next steps of stepping up dates with people I've only had like a 5 minute convo with , thats probably the next big hurdle I see...
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Yeah, that really was the hardest/most frustrating part of all for me.

Once you get some dates, the nervousness goes away real quick, and you learn how to make the conversation flow. But turning those numbers into a 1st date, man oh man that's hard. The 1st 10 #s you get won't even answer their phone or return a message.
 
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sexy_kuta

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EDIT: i thought u were asking on how to get over ons lol

man its hard and to tell u the truth gettin laid wont help

i fuked some girl in the park 3 days ago.. still feel the same.. itsl ike w/e right?

trick is u gotta deal with it no matter wat, just take it slow.. dont break down and get out.. meet more girls..

the more girls u meet the less u will think of her and i think thats the best trick there

cuz when u gamming another girl u think less about the first one...

and keep ur self busy... very busy..

work out everyday or something

it will take anywhere from 2 weeks to 2 months

theres stages u have to go through
 
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GloriouslyInsane

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The best advice i can give you to minimize this timeframe you're aking about is not to revert back to your old self once some serious progress has been made with a girl.
 
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