I concur...*Removes hand from "Delete Thread Button."*Originally posted by Francisco d'Anconia
So DJism is reduced to keeping track of things like this.
sigh
If I do that...There will be a few hundred threads on this...
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
How long can you go without masturbating?
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If I do that...There will be a few hundred threads on this...
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
come on you guys, this thread is so funny, you have to leave it on. Its just goes to show you that the longest thread on the DJ forum is on masterbation and not on success stories, looks like some of us still have a long way to go lol
KillingTime
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No way im reading all those posts, but I read one about acne.... whats the deal with that? Anyone breakout MORE while not masturbating?
Ive got a big acne problem, I usually try ti stop masturbating to PREVENT acne, never thought of it making it worse.
The belief with a lot of people is that when you masturbate your testosterone levels get really out of whack, increasing DHT which worsens acne for many people. But by not masturbating you keep more testosterone in you? Id like to hear more about this. Frankly, if i do it more than once a day at any time other than before bed I usually break out...
Ive got a big acne problem, I usually try ti stop masturbating to PREVENT acne, never thought of it making it worse.
The belief with a lot of people is that when you masturbate your testosterone levels get really out of whack, increasing DHT which worsens acne for many people. But by not masturbating you keep more testosterone in you? Id like to hear more about this. Frankly, if i do it more than once a day at any time other than before bed I usually break out...
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
And if the only thing that is holding you back from being the best that you can be is your propensity to masturbate, you are a better man than I. I must be wasting my time trying to build a real estate empire, completing my PhD and becoming irresistible to women. If I only had to worry about not masturbating to become the best that I can be, my life would suddenly have purpose.
Any of you guys remember the Army's old catch phrase? What if they felt the same way as this guy? Think about it:
"Be, all that you can be (don't masturbate) in the Arrrrrrrrmy!"
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Your such a brag man, so pathetic! I bet your one of them guys who approches like this.Originally posted by Francisco d'Anconia
And if the only thing that is holding you back from being the best that you can be is your propensity to masturbate, you are a better man than I. I must be wasting my time trying to build a real estate empire, completing my PhD and becoming irresistible to women. If I only had to worry about not masturbating to become the best that I can be, my life would suddenly have purpose.
Any of you guys remember the Army's old catch phrase? What if they felt the same way as this guy? Think about it:
"Be, all that you can be (don't masturbate) in the Arrrrrrrrmy!"
brag-hi
ug-hey
brag-drops wallet on table
brag- oop all my 50 credit cards nearly fell out
ug-by me a drink en
brag- I'll buy you 10 drinks
gets the ug drunk enough to get her number
Just kidding man. If you don't like the thread what you getting involved for?
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Just bored and wanted to get a rise out of people. It's too easy...
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Yep. Sad, isn't it. I was actually compelled to post in this thread just because it seemed to be one of the most active. I would have thought the most active would be about approaching or qualifying women. But nope, one of the most active threads is about self gratification. Well, I guess we should blame this on Bush too....Originally posted by Hot Ice
Bored on that and reading masturbation threads on ss.com instead eh
Whoops, my bad....
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Rite, I realy needed to get back into this as my testosterone is shockingly low!
I'm on day 8 now. I don't feel mega horny though. there feels like theres alot more life downstairs though. i feel alot more mentaly stronger to do this than before. i have been off weights for 2 weeks too tomoz when i start back, my testosterone will be crazy high!
Anyone else back in or is it just me?
I'm on day 8 now. I don't feel mega horny though. there feels like theres alot more life downstairs though. i feel alot more mentaly stronger to do this than before. i have been off weights for 2 weeks too tomoz when i start back, my testosterone will be crazy high!
Anyone else back in or is it just me?
duke007
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I'm going to withhold also. I've gone for 5 days so far....doesn't sound much but it's only the beginning.
I've recently resumed squats and deadlifts in the gym so hopefully my testosterone will surge.
I've recently resumed squats and deadlifts in the gym so hopefully my testosterone will surge.
KnightRyder
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Well so far , as of this current day
Its about 3 days and counting.. I 'll try to remember and reply and let you all know the time !
Its about 3 days and counting.. I 'll try to remember and reply and let you all know the time !
why would you guys want to stop masturbatin? i jerk off at least once a day, before going to bed, usually twice or thrice and my game is freakin' good when i do it.
i noticed that when i don't masturbate before sleeping, the morning after, at school, i usually get less glances and, in general, girls are far less attracted than usual. maybe they can smell your "desperateness" to fùck
don't think i'm desperate, since i have sex with my girlfriend at least 3 times a week, usually more.
usually, if i have sex with my girlfriend, then i jerk off before sleeping, the day after i'm looked at as a god... dunno why, but it's so.
i think there's no point in stopping to masturbate, expecially if you work out
i noticed that when i don't masturbate before sleeping, the morning after, at school, i usually get less glances and, in general, girls are far less attracted than usual. maybe they can smell your "desperateness" to fùck
don't think i'm desperate, since i have sex with my girlfriend at least 3 times a week, usually more.
usually, if i have sex with my girlfriend, then i jerk off before sleeping, the day after i'm looked at as a god... dunno why, but it's so.
i think there's no point in stopping to masturbate, expecially if you work out
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Ok. I'm in just for the experiment, I want to see If I do actually feel any different or any benifits from it.
What exactly have u guys experinced?
The whole thing seems confusing and unconclusive,... some people are saying they are more horny / others aren't horny atall.... Some of you are saying woman seem more attracted to you than before then others saying it turns then off more.
So I'm gonna give it a try to see for myelf.
works out that *-) I'm at 11 hours already ... gonna try for 2 weeks at least
What exactly have u guys experinced?
The whole thing seems confusing and unconclusive,... some people are saying they are more horny / others aren't horny atall.... Some of you are saying woman seem more attracted to you than before then others saying it turns then off more.
So I'm gonna give it a try to see for myelf.
works out that *-) I'm at 11 hours already ... gonna try for 2 weeks at least
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.