You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
But that's the thing man, when you don't wack you, you actually require LESS sleep. So if you are stressin at how late you are up, don't worry about it. Your body isn't tired because it isn't drained of it's energy through orgasming. You have more energy. Your body will be just as refreshed in the morning.Originally posted by R3N3GAD3
Gave in at Day One, because, I COULDN'T GET TO SLEEP! I TRIED EVERYTHING!
So, starting fresh on a Monday. Just need to get to Day 3, and I'll be good.
No, I couldn't get to sleep because I was hard and it wouldn't go down. HahaOriginally posted by Jvesti
But that's the thing man, when you don't wake you, you actually require LESS sleep. So if you are stressin at how late you are up, don't worry about it. Your body will be just as refreshed in the morning.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Your saying that's never happened to you?Originally posted by Porky
Haha.
That's sorta pathetic, Ren![]()
Yea I know but I was sick and needed my sleep and that was the only way at 2am in the morningOriginally posted by Jvesti
What I mean't to say was this:
But that's the thing man, when you don't wack you, you actually require LESS sleep. So if you are stressin at how late you are up, don't worry about it. Your body isn't tired because it isn't drained of it's energy through orgasming. You have more energy. Your body will be just as refreshed in the morning.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
That would be a solution.Originally posted by Porky
If you're sleeping naked, don't.
porn is utterly useless, i suggest you delete all of it.Originally posted by Big Pimpin'
Is it ok to look at porn just so you can get a nice boner but not jack off?
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.