Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Gave in at Day One, because, I COULDN'T GET TO SLEEP! I TRIED EVERYTHING!

So, starting fresh on a Monday. Just need to get to Day 3, and I'll be good.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Originally posted by R3N3GAD3
Gave in at Day One, because, I COULDN'T GET TO SLEEP! I TRIED EVERYTHING!

So, starting fresh on a Monday. Just need to get to Day 3, and I'll be good.
But that's the thing man, when you don't wack you, you actually require LESS sleep. So if you are stressin at how late you are up, don't worry about it. Your body isn't tired because it isn't drained of it's energy through orgasming. You have more energy. Your body will be just as refreshed in the morning.
 
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But that's the thing man, when you don't wake you, you actually require LESS sleep. So if you are stressin at how late you are up, don't worry about it. Your body will be just as refreshed in the morning.
No, I couldn't get to sleep because I was hard and it wouldn't go down. Haha
 

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Haha.

That's sorta pathetic, Ren :rolleyes:
 

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What I mean't to say was this:

But that's the thing man, when you don't wack you, you actually require LESS sleep. So if you are stressin at how late you are up, don't worry about it. Your body isn't tired because it isn't drained of it's energy through orgasming. You have more energy. Your body will be just as refreshed in the morning.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Originally posted by Porky
Haha.

That's sorta pathetic, Ren :rolleyes:
Your saying that's never happened to you?
 

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Originally posted by Jvesti
What I mean't to say was this:

But that's the thing man, when you don't wack you, you actually require LESS sleep. So if you are stressin at how late you are up, don't worry about it. Your body isn't tired because it isn't drained of it's energy through orgasming. You have more energy. Your body will be just as refreshed in the morning.
Yea I know but I was sick and needed my sleep and that was the only way at 2am in the morning :p
 

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Ok i jerked it last night, (sunday) but today is monday and im going to see how long i can go. I almost started to when i woke up but i forced myself not to.

WITH MY POWER I WILL DEFEAT THE JERK OFF DEMON!
 

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I'm in again day, one starting today. I would be on day 3 but I screwed up yesterday. I was praticing edgeing; going to the point of ejaculating then stopping before it happens. I'm quite good at it now but yesterday I had one stroke too many. I stoped but about 20 seconds later of no contact I still came.

I guess its my goal now to not jerk off more than twice a week. A sharp change from doing it two times a day. I used to need to jerk off to get to sleep but overtime I don't need to. Mornings are a pain though. Does anybody else wake with a rock hard boner everyday? It makes it very difficult to sleep in.
 

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If you're sleeping naked, don't.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I sleep with boxers on but I'm not sure if it makes a difference. I think its just that I'm allways very horny.
 

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Originally posted by Porky
If you're sleeping naked, don't.
That would be a solution.
 

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Yup but unless you come as soon as you see porn :p The problem with porn is that it makes you want to stroke yourself. After doing that for a while you end up flat out jerking off. You say to yourself, "It's ok, I'm not going to come" But you can't fight it.

Its best to have no contact with porn. Also you should not need porn to get a full boner.
 

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Originally posted by Big Pimpin'
Is it ok to look at porn just so you can get a nice boner but not jack off?
porn is utterly useless, i suggest you delete all of it.

wacking off until before orgasm during this is utterly insane

take it from someone that went about 60 something days. drop porn, dont jerk it, channel your energy elsewhere.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Day two done. (It's not actually, but, if I was going to do it I would of done it this morning)
 

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As long as you dont c-u-m its okay to do whatever u wanna...

btw im on day 13
 

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Alright dammit I'm in! :)

I made it about two weeks over spring break. Then I went and screwed that up. I'm definitely in it for the long run though. It's on like Donkey Kong.
 

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This is way harder than I thought it would be.

Last week I wasn't going to consider hooking up with the hot freshman since she's too young...but now I can't wait to **** her.


yaaargh.

Edit: I figured out how not to be horny. Whenever I start to get the urge I drink a lot of water until I need to pee really badly.
 
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Well I didn't "officially" sign up but I went 4 days without masturbating, I just blew it today though. It's days 3-5 that really seem to kill me. Oh well I'll just try again. Good luck to everyone.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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