She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
But that's the thing man, when you don't wack you, you actually require LESS sleep. So if you are stressin at how late you are up, don't worry about it. Your body isn't tired because it isn't drained of it's energy through orgasming. You have more energy. Your body will be just as refreshed in the morning.Originally posted by R3N3GAD3
Gave in at Day One, because, I COULDN'T GET TO SLEEP! I TRIED EVERYTHING!
So, starting fresh on a Monday. Just need to get to Day 3, and I'll be good.
No, I couldn't get to sleep because I was hard and it wouldn't go down. HahaOriginally posted by Jvesti
But that's the thing man, when you don't wake you, you actually require LESS sleep. So if you are stressin at how late you are up, don't worry about it. Your body will be just as refreshed in the morning.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Your saying that's never happened to you?Originally posted by Porky
Haha.
That's sorta pathetic, Ren![]()
Yea I know but I was sick and needed my sleep and that was the only way at 2am in the morningOriginally posted by Jvesti
What I mean't to say was this:
But that's the thing man, when you don't wack you, you actually require LESS sleep. So if you are stressin at how late you are up, don't worry about it. Your body isn't tired because it isn't drained of it's energy through orgasming. You have more energy. Your body will be just as refreshed in the morning.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
That would be a solution.Originally posted by Porky
If you're sleeping naked, don't.
porn is utterly useless, i suggest you delete all of it.Originally posted by Big Pimpin'
Is it ok to look at porn just so you can get a nice boner but not jack off?
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.