"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
How long can you go without masturbating?
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Most of the temptation to break the fast is gone. I suddenly feel way more magnetic, and socially I'm patient too, I don't mind things taking longer to work out...ie in long conversations I do much better strategically. Also I'm alot more magnetic, it seems. People are really listening to what I'm saying, especially when I lower my voice. I feel like if I get any more testosterone I'm gonna have to do anything possible to get a girl home with me
Jvesti
Master Don Juan
I am also going to see how this effects my powerlifting routine. If it helps it or does not.
Does anyone know why they make boxers abstain from sex one month before a fight? What is their reasoning behind this? I can assume.
I haven't had much time to do any field reports in social situations because I've been busy as ****. but i will be sure ready to fire it off when i go out next week.
VIVAlasVEGASBaby
Senior Don Juan
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
AC/DC
Master Don Juan
Wackin off makes everything WORSE. Absolutely worse. I hate it.
During football season, I noticed my performance dropped dramatically when I wacked off, so I made if I wacked it, then I'd do it through the weekend, so my friday night games went lots smoother and better.
And women sense this. You gain a sort of detachment and are less self-conscious. You KNOW they can't grab you by the balls and make you do their bidding.
I wish I could send myself into that state without giving up masturbation, but it's ten times easier when I do. Exams are coming up and then summer vacation (when I plan on unleashing on girls), so I am going to attempt to abstain for the next 2 weeks so I can focus and build up some desire.
If it works for boxers (Ali most notably), then it should work for us. I was also reading a book on Tao a couple months ago that talked a lot about transmutation of sexual energy into other forms.
I do notice that I'm more sociable and friendly when I don't jack off for a while. I'm funnier and can think on my feet more easily.
An interesting sidenote... I noticed that I had very little desire to jack off after I made out with that chick. I went about 9 days without jacking off. Then one day I did and I couldn't stop. My sex drive was insane. I would jack off and STILL be horny. It's like all those days I abstained had stacked up and created a debt. This continued for about 4 more days.
I'm starting the challenge tomorrow. Wish me luck. My AIM name is secondton0ne, so hit me up and we can help each other through this thing.
comic_relief
Master Don Juan
Maybe we should implement this into the DJ bootcamp. Makes people more sociable and more outgoing. Can't be a bad idea. Can it
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Jvesti
Master Don Juan
It's basically the bodies way of clearing extra gizz. I don't feel drained at all really. I feel the same. Anyways, expect this to happen around day 12-20.
i'm on day 5 of completely not wanking and not looking at any porn at all. Even eye contact with girls is sexual, so that's a reason to do it more.
I feel like i'm going all the way this time; no intention to spank it or watch porn. feelin great
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.