"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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im out. popped 3 times at me chicks house last night and decided to have a wank when i got home.

so i made it 8 days, but il be holding off again and definately be cutting back on masterbation for good.

it was a good feeling actually being fully hard for a change last night too.
that alone is a good enough reason for me to cut way back on wanking. afterall no guy wants to be caught short and not be able to fully utilize what hes got, especially if its a chick your boning for the first time and want to make a good impression;)
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Originally posted by ( . )( . )
im out. popped 3 times at me chicks house last night and decided to have a wank when i got home.
you machine :p

i thought the rules were you were allowed for girls to make you come, just not yourself. so if you didn't have that wank, you'd still be in it?
 

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Originally posted by gav
**** it, i'm out at 4 and a 1/2 days.

Whoever said to get the point of ejac then stop should be shot. worst case of blue balls ever

my fault though, lessons learned; i'm starting again
Ya that was wacked. Not sure who would of suggested such a thing. You need to erase throw out any false sexual stimuli, such as porn, mags etc
 

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Originally posted by gav
**** it, i'm out at 4 and a 1/2 days.

Whoever said to get the point of ejac then stop should be shot. worst case of blue balls ever

my fault though, lessons learned; i'm starting again
Ahhh no! These fasts only work if you don't do ANYTHING down there. Actually I'd argue you broke the fast just by doing that. Just because you don't come doesn't mean you're not jerking off.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Originally posted by alboh
Actually I'd argue you broke the fast just by doing that. Just because you don't come doesn't mean you're not jerking off.
Il have to disagree with you there, i mean apart from being immensely stupid OR an excellent way of getting yourself into a sexual state before a night out (if you had a strong enough will to stop..... doubtful) your not cvmming are you? and if your not cvmming your not jacking off so to speak are you?
 

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ahhhhhhh Im out. Had a few drinks and u know the next morning when you get horny? well all my booty calls were unavailable, the main one is out of town :( Lasted like 5 days :( man I have no self control when it comes to sexual deeds, hehe.

Good luck to the rest of you guys.
 

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Originally posted by ( . )( . )
Il have to disagree with you there, i mean apart from being immensely stupid OR an excellent way of getting yourself into a sexual state before a night out (if you had a strong enough will to stop..... doubtful) your not cvmming are you? and if your not cvmming your not jacking off so to speak are you?
I've avoided anything at all. I've tried fasting before and doing that but not cumming, and it doesnt have the same effect. Not doing anything at all makes it stronger, at least for me.

So how many people are actually left? Am I gonna have to spend the next week doing this alone?
 

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Originally posted by alboh
I've avoided anything at all. I've tried fasting before and doing that but not cumming, and it doesnt have the same effect. Not doing anything at all makes it stronger, at least for me.

So how many people are actually left? Am I gonna have to spend the next week doing this alone?
Day 8 over here. gradually needing less and less sleep. I feel very whole.

Everyone I've interacted with I've been very influential with. But I'm not sure if that's cause the no masturbation thing.

I think I will outlast you all. ;)
 

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so starts Day 8. When I orgasm regularly it is only real hot chicks naked that do it. All of a sudden everything I see having to do with a female turns me on. Christ man, I was watching TV and I saw the back of some girls body (back of shoulder) in a spaghetti strap shirt. Damn she had a freakin hot back. It was all tanned and nice.

Anyways, I have been very productive the past 3 days with my work. I think I am able to analyze and focus on things better.

How is everyone doing now?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I havent jacked off in the last two weeks because I've either been getting some easy ***** or I've been getting drunk off my mind.
 

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Man I am so tempted to jerk off. I haven't had sex since Sunday morning and its driving me crazy and I don't know when I'll get my next hit :( The last time I jerked was the day before.

My moods are bascily unstable. Really horny most of the time but I got so pissed off today. I walked a hot girl to her car today and I didn't have the freaken guts to ask her out, Arg!!! The fear of her answer was stronger than my sex drive.

I don't want to jerk off but I need to relive the pressure, I can fight it for now, but I don't know for how long. I've heard that its healthyer for our bodies to flush everything, meaning ejaculate a couple of times a week. Idealy that means getting laid about every three days.
 

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2 weeks. My hands wouldn't "give it up" because they have finger "headache".
 

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Well I'm out. Not masturbationg or sex wasn't doing me any good so why tortue myself? 4 days without cumming.

At least I now know the difference between jerking off and sex. There is no comparison between the two.
 

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Originally posted by Jvesti

I saw the back of some girls body (back of shoulder) in a spaghetti strap shirt. Damn she had a freakin hot back.
that is jokes..

im at Day 4
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I think it's obvious by the ammount of replies on this post..... the key to becoming an uber-Don Juan is:

Not jacking your pud.


Forget NLP, forget C&F, forget hitting the clubs, forget confidence boosters, don't worry about a wingman, because.....

Your not Jacking off.


That hottie across the room giving you the eye? Don't bother with body language, smooth talking or kino, don't even THINK about being nervous on the approach, because......

You haven't jacked off.


Lost your job? Lost a loved one? Your wife just left you and took the kids? Living in a dank pit of sorrow, disgrace and shame?

Chances are.... YOU JACKED OFF.


Wasting your time reading the Hall of Fame are you? Think Pook has all the answers do you? Fool. If you only knew the one closely guarded secret kept from prying eyes for centuries by the famous DJ-guardians of manhood.........................................

DO NOT JACK OFF.
 

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Originally posted by Don Ronny
what is masturbating?
ok, i've decided that masturbating = roughly more than 5 strokes and doesn't necessarily amount to cumming.

Therefore, as of 1 day ago, i'm starting a new challenge; not masturbating at all. The longest I've ever gone with this was 8 days (rubbing included). I think it'll be pretty hard to beat this (no pun intended);)
 

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i am starting over as well starting tommorrow when i wake up.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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