How Long Before you Give Up?

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

Yachtie

Don Juan

Dec 24, 2010

do you know her friends? she might be the type of girl who only uses text/bbm and receives calls from friends, including females. my girl is the same way in that she rarely initiates contact unless i've given her no contact or something -- as it turns out, she rarely initiates contact with her regular female friends too. i think this developed over several years of being the object of attention in school.

if that's the case for your girl, i wonder if that "take from a taker" theory would work here too?