"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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How long before the legs close?

crazedman

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Come on guys we all know that once the honeymoon period is over the legs start to close unless you are lucky enough to be with a nympho of course!

What are your experiences guys? It seems well and good for at least the first six months and then it's a slow decline to almost once a month!

Personally I think if there is no sex then there is no relationship and this is what makes men cheat, but even if you try to explain this to chicks they still don't seem to get it.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Teflon_Mcgee

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I think no sex boils down to one of two things. Your girl has ittle interest/doesn't really care about you. Or you suck as a BF and can't create desire.

As long as you **** her good and she cares about you, you should get sex as often as you want it.

My girl knows I control the tempo. If I want sex I get it. That's just the way it is. It's non-negotioable just like me giving her affection.

You're right. No sex = no relationship.
I wouldn't cheat if there was no sex. I'd simply leave. My girl knows this. One day she may not care but currently she does. As long as I stay desirable she will care.

Anyway to sum it up. Lack of sex either means low-quality girl or you are no DJ.
 

Pakwah

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Remember guys want sex for love and girls want love for sex
Also if your girl aint 'happy' inside the bedroom, then there is trouble outside the bedroom
Sometimes womens libidos' just go down for a while and of course as a guy, you think it is you. Thing is if this is the problem then she should be as adiment (?) to let you know it isnt your fault.
Change it up, surprise her, remember forplay can start in the morning with a sentence or a note left behind or surprise lunch....
Keep it interesting, just dont get used.
 

Bible_Belt

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The Internet makes it easy to get a lot of quick attention when the LTR gets boring. You have to be more exciting than the cheap thrills of dating new people.
 
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