"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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How long before the legs close?

crazedman

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Come on guys we all know that once the honeymoon period is over the legs start to close unless you are lucky enough to be with a nympho of course!

What are your experiences guys? It seems well and good for at least the first six months and then it's a slow decline to almost once a month!

Personally I think if there is no sex then there is no relationship and this is what makes men cheat, but even if you try to explain this to chicks they still don't seem to get it.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Teflon_Mcgee

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I think no sex boils down to one of two things. Your girl has ittle interest/doesn't really care about you. Or you suck as a BF and can't create desire.

As long as you **** her good and she cares about you, you should get sex as often as you want it.

My girl knows I control the tempo. If I want sex I get it. That's just the way it is. It's non-negotioable just like me giving her affection.

You're right. No sex = no relationship.
I wouldn't cheat if there was no sex. I'd simply leave. My girl knows this. One day she may not care but currently she does. As long as I stay desirable she will care.

Anyway to sum it up. Lack of sex either means low-quality girl or you are no DJ.
 

Pakwah

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Remember guys want sex for love and girls want love for sex
Also if your girl aint 'happy' inside the bedroom, then there is trouble outside the bedroom
Sometimes womens libidos' just go down for a while and of course as a guy, you think it is you. Thing is if this is the problem then she should be as adiment (?) to let you know it isnt your fault.
Change it up, surprise her, remember forplay can start in the morning with a sentence or a note left behind or surprise lunch....
Keep it interesting, just dont get used.
 

Bible_Belt

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The Internet makes it easy to get a lot of quick attention when the LTR gets boring. You have to be more exciting than the cheap thrills of dating new people.
 
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