As long as things are moving forward, it's all good. The problem is when things start going in the wrong direction - at that point, you have to ditch them.Question for you guys. How many dates are you willing to give a girl before having sex? I know a lot of factors play into this situation of course.
I have been talking to this girl for about 3 weeks now. She is part of my social circle (my friend's coworker's step-daughter) and we have gone on 4 dates now. For our third date early last week we were at my place where I cooked us some food and she brought over some wine. She is really sweet and genuine and definitely seemed a little nervous when making out with me, especially as the sexual tension started to rise. She said "I don't do that stuff until at least the third date. She joked about how technically our first date was not a true date since it was with my friend and her sister. Tonight, I had her to my place again (technically our 4th date) and we cooked together; she also brought over tequila per my request. When things started to heat up again she said "this is probably a bad time to tell you.. but I'm on my period." She also mentioned later on that even if she wasn't on her period she still is not sure what would have happened because she is just still a little shy about things.
This girl really is sweet, and I am VERY much into her. Cute, great body, not selfish, funny, easy to talk to, etc., but my question is how many more dates/chances would you give a girl in your social circle? I definitely enjoy hanging out with her, but I want more than just making out and company.