"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
How late is too late to call/text a girl after getting her number?
- Thread starter Conquer
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
But I dont understand the rushing.
'omg im so interested in you that i must contact you within 24 hours or else you will forget me and i really really dont want to take that risk please go out with me'.
Wait a few days, call them when you feel like it. Why are you so insecure that they will lose interest?
but yes play it with your own style.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
playerone
Senior Don Juan
I appreciate your input but i never said i didn't have anything to do outside of talking to women. I live my life and women are just a part of it, i never shift course or go out of my way for them. I was just curious to know how different guys handled the calling/texting of women after getting digits. Pure curiosity but thxItsTheAttitude said:
I also called one girl the day after. nothing wrong and she's still interested.
Just call when you have time. Girls and dating is about having fun, not about being perfect. as long as you don't come off as a needy clinging baby then you should be straight to call whenever you want
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
The wait a couple days rule is Sh1t. Call when you have time to talk.
I actually read somewhere that the 3 days rule is BS because in the beginning you should work getting to know the girl and making a move. You might think it makes you seem all important and "Scarce" if you wait a couple days to call, but she's really not gonna care about how scarce or busy a guy is if she barely knows him. She won't worry about a man too much that she just met.
and no she won't be wondering why you haven't called. If she's an attractive woman then she has a lot of options anyway, that's why you have to move.
That of course is their opinion. But I agree with it
Call whenever you want. Dating is not some complex Medical Procedure